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Karma?

  • 30-03-2011 2:17am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I know this is trivial but i need to just get this off my chest, i'll keep it brief, advice appreciated.
    I once kissed a guy (friend of friends) who had a girlfriend, or rather he kissed me, i didn't know he had a gf until after we kissed. He blurted out that he had a gf that he'd been seeing for over a year and he was madly in love with her. I should've walked away but i didn't. We kept kissing for hours after and eventually i told him to go back to his gf. I know he was so crushed that he was cheating on her. He's such a lovely guy and i know he was/is genuinely mad about her. I stumbled upon his facebook page by accident tonight and i feel so guilty, 2 years later and they're still together. I know he's the kind of guy who will feel like s**t for cheating on her, and she looked so happy in their photos. I can't believe he's had to carry this burden of guilt for so long, partly my fault, i feel like crap, i just see his lovely smiley happy gf and can't believe i've done such a horrible thing to this poor girl who's done nothing to me :(. My own love life is nonexistant, i'm beginning to think maybe it's karma? I'm a horrible cow :(


Comments

  • #2
    StupidLikeAFox
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,745 ✭✭✭StupidLikeAFox


    I would magine he has got over it OP. People make mistakes all the time and you just have to learn to deal with it and get on with it. You should do the same and try stop fixating on something which, in the grand scheme of things, isnt really a major blunder.

    If this is the most significant thing you have done that you feel bad about, you are not a bad person at ALL :)


  • #3
    sashafierce
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,599 ✭✭✭sashafierce


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  • #4
    FoxyVixen
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,158 ✭✭✭FoxyVixen


    just what sasha said above. He quite probably told her and even if he hasn't why are you so fixated over this when it was two years ago and only a bit of messing around. he might have just been going through a bad patch with the gf when that happened and after messing about he realised that he was that mad about her he'd fix whatever was wrong.

    So you could have done the right thing fooling around with him ;)

    Either way, let it go. These things happen. Not like you were the one cheating!!


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