Does she like me????

bobaldinho

OK so this is the story,

about two weeks ago i was in my room in my appartment in college, it was roughly 4 in the morning when i heard a knocking on the main door. I thought it was just somebody drunk coming home and were at the wrong door so i ignored it, but they kept banging so eventually i got up and went to the door. When i opened it there was this beautiful Spanish girl standing there in only a pair of shorts, a tshirt and a jacket. She was after coming home with somebody but had left their place and gotten lost. She was alone, frightened and spoke only broken english.

So i brought her into my place to calm her down and see what had happened. She had come back with a boy but left his place without her clothes, phone, money, anything like that. She was only in the city for the night, having come down with a few friends. So i went around with her while she knocked on all the doors looking for the place she had stayed, i had also given her some socks to put on her feet at this point as it was very cold outside. We could not find where she had been, and it was nearly half 5 in the morning at this stage, so i convinced her the best thing to do was come back to mine, rest, and try again in the morning. SO she came back to mine, cried again for awhile before calming down and going to sleep in the empty bed in my roommates room, he was gone home that night.

The next morning she came into me at about half 9 and sat on the end of my bed as i woke up. She look so beautiful as she sat there, looked scared yet safe with me. We spent the best part of 3 hours chatting, her telling me about her life in Spain, me telling her about mine here. We got on well, then shortly after midday we searched for her stuff again. We found it in an apartment nearby and she came back to mine to phone her friends. We could not get her clothes because they were locked in the boys room but he was not around, so i allowed her to take a pair of my pants and shoes. Before her friends came and collected her she insisted on adding me on facebook, so we did. Then i brought her down to where her friends were and we hugged before she left. She still had my clothes at this stage.

Later that night i got a message from her on facebook say how grateful she was to me, and how she hoped we would stay in contact. She ended the message kisses xxxxxx.

So i replied that i was happy to have helped her and would love to stay in contact, as it was nice meeting her.

She then replied that she was thinking of coming back here in a few weeks with some friends, to collect her clothes and give mine back. She also said she hoped to see me then and ended with kisses again.

We messaged a few more times, discussing how we should meet up and go out for a few drinks when she came down, and i offered to get her clothes from her from the boy from the first night, which i did end up doing. She told me how it had been a bad night for her, but also good because she had met me, and that she couldnt wait to see me again, ending with kisses and xxxxx in every message. We also exchanged numbers but she had no credit so we didnt text.

In her latest message she asked me how i was, how college was going and whether i had any exams coming up. She also said she couldnt wait to see me, and added kisses again. I replied and asked her if she had thought anymore about coming down. She has not reponded yet, and that was 3 days ago. I also texted her yesterday just to see how she was, but i got no reply. Im not worried about that as she has no credit.

The thing is she is only in Ireland till July and goes back to Spain then, the quetion is does anybody out there know what should i do? I mean i like her, i think she likes me from her messages, or maybe am i just reading too much into them? She told me she was single, that she had not been with anybody for two years so im pretty certain she does not have a boyfriend back home. Am i making too much of this, i mean i have only known her just under two weeks, what should i do????

Thanks for reading, i know it was long.

Kersmash

Go for it. What do you have to lose?

lace

It sounds like you like her and, from the sound of her messages, she's interested in you. Both of you are willing and single so there's no harm in meeting up and seeing how it goes. I wouldn't worry about the issue of her return to spain in july just yet. Have a few dates and take it from there. Good luck!!

bobaldinho

hey thanks for the replies

yeah i do like her (:

as i said we spent a few hours together chatting and she seemed very nice and cool to me

i think she likes me too, i hope she does

she messaged me again during the week, saying that her friends dont want to come down to where i am, but that she does, so she might just come down by herself, which sounds good to me (: (:

im going to call her tomorrow, as you said just go for it, i have nothing to loose. hopefully all will go well from there

thanks again

HugoDrax

bobaldinho wrote: »

hey thanks for the replies

yeah i do like her (:

as i said we spent a few hours together chatting and she seemed very nice and cool to me

i think she likes me too, i hope she does

she messaged me again during the week, saying that her friends dont want to come down to where i am, but that she does, so she might just come down by herself, which sounds good to me (: (:

im going to call her tomorrow, as you said just go for it, i have nothing to loose. hopefully all will go well from there

thanks again

From my experience this girl has the hots for you. However...

Remember not to have too much expectations - it is possible she is just a very friendly social butterfly kind of girl and if you get all romantic and try to kiss her she might not want you to have anything to do with her.

It is possible she puts lots of kisses at the end of all her facebook and text messages - girls do that with their girlfriends all the time.

Perhaps she is just happy to meet a friendly guy in a country where she is a foreigner and if you try to be more than friends she could snap out of it?

So when you do meet her and you want to gauge if she has romantic feelings for you, first just play it cool and relaxed and see if she starts making romantic moves. When you are convincde she has feelings for you then don't hold back and turn on the charm and the romance and kiss her.

Even then be prepared to blow it.

Don't build up to getting with her too much and just relax and have fun.

I think you are onto a winner and unless you reveal some horrible secret about yourself, there's no reason why you could not have a romance with this nice girl before she goes back to Spain.

Go for it.