Ex's and the JOY they bring

s3129

Why do ex's feel the need to be total d1cks?
Its been two years since I broke up with mine and even now tonight I'm hearing stories he is going around saying about me. Real nasty sh1t. What is it with people? I don't understand. I am so ANGRY I feel like going nuts!!!!!! Is it funny to mess with other peoples lives and spread horrible rumors about them? Not only making me look bad but dragging other people into it? I dont understand.. I know I'm raving but I needed to rave ok!!!!!

lecker Hendl

what was said about you? People over react sometimes. Also, are the things in question true? How was your ex affected in the breakup?

s3129

Nooo it wasn't true. I don't know, it would be kind of wierd to put it up here, but basically he said I was with another guy (he said this to his girlfriend), resulting in me having to 'go to england....' he spread this around the town.. So now everyone thinks its true.
I don't know, we broke up because he went down a horrible road of drink and drugs, not in a fun way but turned into a MESS and I was getting the brunt of it, him taking out things on me, got nasty for a finish.. and now this.. as if it wasn't hard enough, this... O lord but I am so angry and theres nobody awake here to let loose to .. haha some body get me wineeee

dr.bollocko

Moved from after hours.

s3129

Thanks dr.bollocko for moving it to relationship issues which will have nobody awake and online .. wanted abit of after hours smartness to cheer me up but i supose I'll sit over here in relationship issues and wait.......

God...

s3129 wrote: »

Thanks dr.bollocko for moving it to relationship issues which will have nobody awake and online .. wanted abit of after hours smartness to cheer me up but i supose I'll sit over here in relationship issues and wait.......

Sometimes you realise what an idiot you were for being with such an idiot and the **** you put up with, so you take it out by telling other people what an idiot they are and what they done to you because you think these people care but in reality nobody really cares about this stuff but you cause there all of wondering about themselves!!!



CAPISH???

Johro

s3129 wrote: »

Nooo it wasn't true. I don't know, it would be kind of wierd to put it up here, but basically he said I was with another guy (he said this to his girlfriend), resulting in me having to 'go to england....' he spread this around the town.. So now everyone thinks its true.
I don't know, we broke up because he went down a horrible road of drink and drugs, not in a fun way but turned into a MESS and I was getting the brunt of it, him taking out things on me, got nasty for a finish.. and now this.. as if it wasn't hard enough, this... O lord but I am so angry and theres nobody awake here to let loose to .. haha some body get me wineeee

He'd be embarrassed if his girlfriend knew the truth I guess. No excuse for outright lies though. He could've told her you just grew apart or something, if she asked why you split up. It would be stuff you wouldn't necessarily volunteer unless asked, for me anyway. Bit sh!tty to put stuff around town alright.
Be happy you dumped the tw@t.

s3129

Johro wrote: »

He'd be embarrassed if his girlfriend knew the truth I guess. No excuse for outright lies though. He could've told her you just grew apart or something, if she asked why you split up. It would be stuff you wouldn't necessarily volunteer unless asked, for me anyway. Bit sh!tty to put stuff around town alright.
Be happy you dumped the tw@t.

it wasn't my ex's girlfriend, he went up to another girl and told her i was with her boyfriend blah blah blah.. all because i was friends with the guy and my ex was jealous. i dont get it like. the way i see it is everyone goes through a relationship and a break up, it ends, get over it.. no need for nasty little stories, i live in a small town, now i dont know who thinks what or if people believe i went to england and all this.. it just sucks.. i know i need to get over it, im over him, but im just so mad that he would say things like that ... some people...

Johro

s3129 wrote: »

it wasn't my ex's girlfriend, he went up to another girl and told her i was with her boyfriend blah blah blah.. all because i was friends with the guy and my ex was jealous. i dont get it like. the way i see it is everyone goes through a relationship and a break up, it ends, get over it.. no need for nasty little stories, i live in a small town, now i dont know who thinks what or if people believe i went to england and all this.. it just sucks.. i know i need to get over it, im over him, but im just so mad that he would say things like that ... some people...

Jeez... In that case.. Definitely blast him with piss.
Best not to worry too much about what people might think. I reckon for most people it would go in one ear and out the other cause they're not all that interested in stuff that doesn't involve them.
People you know and who know you will know better. (what a sentence..but ya know what I mean).
Short of taking out a newspaper ad there's not a lot you can do about it other than to put people right if they ask ya about it.
Let it go, he's not worth it.

s3129

Johro wrote: »

Jeez... In that case.. Definitely blast him with piss.
Best not to worry too much about what people might think. I reckon for most people it would go in one ear and out the other cause they're not all that interested in stuff that doesn't involve them.
People you know and who know you will know better. (what a sentence..but ya know what I mean).
Short of taking out a newspaper ad there's not a lot you can do about it other than to put people right if they ask ya about it.
Let it go, he's not worth it.

Ur dead right.. thanks for that .. I feel better now after writin it all down and stuff.. wooooo..

Thanks again

Max Power1

Johro wrote: »

Jeez... In that case.. Definitely blast him with piss.
Best not to worry too much about what people might think. I reckon for most people it would go in one ear and out the other cause they're not all that interested in stuff that doesn't involve them.
People you know and who know you will know better. (what a sentence..but ya know what I mean).
Short of taking out a newspaper ad there's not a lot you can do about it other than to put people right if they ask ya about it.
Let it go, he's not worth it.

seems like that phrase has spread from AH into other fora!

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Wompa1

I'll probably get blasted for this. But did you ever lie to him during the relationship? If so maybe he had a hard time getting over things and then when he was thinking about things he thought about the lies and wondered what other lies you told.

If he was insecure about that guy then his assumption might have been that you did get with him..the England thing was out of spite though I'd imagine.

I got cheated on by my ex and now I've pretty much replayed all of our relationship and rethought every significant event in it and in my head everything has changed. She lied to me so much that odds are there were even more lies..so now anything I had asked her about before is now whatever I assume because I can't trust a word out of her

s3129

Wompa1 wrote: »

I'll probably get blasted for this. But did you ever lie to him during the relationship? If so maybe he had a hard time getting over things and then when he was thinking about things he thought about the lies and wondered what other lies you told.

If he was insecure about that guy then his assumption might have been that you did get with him..the England thing was out of spite though I'd imagine.

I got cheated on by my ex and now I've pretty much replayed all of our relationship and rethought every significant event in it and in my head everything has changed. She lied to me so much that odds are there were even more lies..so now anything I had asked her about before is now whatever I assume because I can't trust a word out of her

He is finding it hard that we arent together anymore, but he was the one who did all wrong.. it was fine for a year, then he cheated on me.. then he got addicted to cheating on me.. i fell for all his lies and excuses and its only now I'm finding out everything. He also hit me a few times, sometimes worse than others.. Accused me of cheating, broke 3 phones, stole one.. deleted numbers from me phone.. made me choose between him and others,verbally abused me in public, then got addicted to drink and drugs and spent every weekend friday til monday morning on a binge, and would use my house on the weekdays as a sort of refuge.. Used me over and over again, and more cheating. Eventually I copped on, opened my eyes and that was it over. And now this. He is a jealous b0ll1x and wants nothing more to make my life a misery. I am a strong person but I really and truely am at breaking point now.

Wompa1

s3129 wrote: »

He is finding it hard that we arent together anymore, but he was the one who did all wrong.. it was fine for a year, then he cheated on me.. then he got addicted to cheating on me.. i fell for all his lies and excuses and its only now I'm finding out everything. He also hit me a few times, sometimes worse than others.. Accused me of cheating, broke 3 phones, stole one.. deleted numbers from me phone.. made me choose between him and others,verbally abused me in public, then got addicted to drink and drugs and spent every weekend friday til monday morning on a binge, and would use my house on the weekdays as a sort of refuge.. Used me over and over again, and more cheating. Eventually I copped on, opened my eyes and that was it over. And now this. He is a jealous b0ll1x and wants nothing more to make my life a misery. I am a strong person but I really and truely am at breaking point now.

Oh ok. Well I'm not much help then because I was the you in my relationship if that makes sense. It was my partner that was abusing me. I don't know what you can do. Either petty revenge if you have something over him or just leave things alone

s3129

Wompa1 wrote: »

Oh ok. Well I'm not much help then because I was the you in my relationship if that makes sense. It was my partner that was abusing me. I don't know what you can do. Either petty revenge if you have something over him or just leave things alone

Ya, I think its healthier to leave things alone, I was just so wound up last night I needed to come on here and write ha..

I know really and truely that its a lesson, and I know to look for better in the future.

God its tough huh.?!

Rufus the brave

s3129 wrote: »

Why do ex's feel the need to be total d1cks?
Its been two years since I broke up with mine and even now tonight I'm hearing stories he is going around saying about me. Real nasty sh1t. What is it with people? I don't understand. I am so ANGRY I feel like going nuts!!!!!! Is it funny to mess with other peoples lives and spread horrible rumors about them? Not only making me look bad but dragging other people into it? I dont understand.. I know I'm raving but I needed to rave ok!!!!!

Rave on sister! Nobody believes the bitter ramblings of a spurned lover. Just laugh it off or cringe... and tell them all that you dodged a bullet with that guy...and then maybe head out and sleep with his best mates :cool:

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