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In love with my housemate

  • 28-03-2011 2:11am
    #1
    inhale
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1 ✭


    Hi guys,

    I'm a male student living with 2 others, one of which is a girl who I've had a massive crush on for a while now. The thing is I think the crush developed because I thought she was in to me, mainly because she's very friendly and would be touchy-feely. However that wore off after a short while and 7 months on she doesn't really bother with me. In fact it's reached a stage where I think I just annoy her.

    I always assumed I'd get over her but I think seeing her every day makes that impossible. Plus I'm always put on a downer whenever I hear that shes been with a lad whilst out. It doesn't help my college work that its always on my mind either. She's never brought a guy home but if she did I think it would shatter me.

    Basically I'm asking if anyone has been in this situation before and what they did about it. I need to get over her, because it's driving me to distraction.

    Thanks.


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  • #2
    Norma_Desmond
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 249 ✭✭Norma_Desmond


    I'd say it to her, better to know than let it keep going on like this.
    Maybe the reason she acts like you annoy her now could be that she did have feelings about you in the past but thought that you didn't feel the same way.
    If it's affecting your college work you need to get it sorted. If she doesn't feel the same way would you think of moving house? Like they say: out of sight out of mind.
    You might be able to move on if you weren't living together and if you clear your mind of her (if she doesn't like you that is) you could meet an even better girl.
    Good luck.


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