totally lost

LegacyUser

hey all

just want to get this off my chest....the backstory to this situation im in a present

so i was away on a stags last year met this girl chatted for most of the nite go on really well we both were attracted to each other and ended up kissing but went our separate ways and never exchanged numbers....

anyway i found her on FB and added her and we talked for a couple of months on FB and txt and that only chatted never met up because we live in different cities....

so in the last 2 months we started to call each other the calls would go on for 1-2 hours most days and txt in between....we both said it was weird how easy it was to chat and how well we got on so we arranged to meet up....so both of us where pretty excited about meeting up as it had been a few months since we seen each other so coming up to that week she cancelled due to work (later found out she freaked out abit ill get to that)

so a few days lated she called and we chatted and sorted stuff out and that was fine all back on good terms....last friday then i get a phone call from her basically in floods of tears not getting into what happened but she was upset so i said i will call down that nite which i did....she was working all weekend but i went down just to comfort her a be a friend stayed in a spare room all weekend ...on the sat we went out during the day had some drinks talked and kissed and that generally just getting on

so she went to work sat nite i went in with her and then once she finished we headed home back to her hse everything was fine slept in a separate room so as not to make her uncomfortable..... i left sunday day headed home she dropped me at the train and we hugged and she thanked me for coming down to look after her and told me to txt her when i got home....so i did and got no reply at all which is really unusual so i left it a day and txt her seen was everything ok she txt back saying something had happened that she couldnt txt i said fine no worries

so since then havent heard a thing from her....i am completely lost as to what could of happened or what i mite have said to mess things up or anything

if its a case she just doesnt fancy me fine no probs but just let me know....

i have txt her today for the last time saying basically good luck deleted her number and any record of her so i dont do anything stupid over the weekend like drunk dial her

i am just at a loss to know what the hell happened

IrishEyes19

Hi, OP, is it possible there's someone else in her life and she was attracted to you, but unsure what to do???

Miss Fluff

She sounds like a total headwreck to be honest. She has been rude, dismissive, evasive and is obviously lacking courtesy by not even having the decency to reply to your texts. I'd cut your losses and just cut contact (like you have). Seems to me she either doesn't know what she wants and/or just loves the attention. No point in wasting any more time in someone who is just going to mess you about m'dear....

LegacyUser

irisheyes----yeah it could be possible she has some1 else going too not sure though

fluff

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i think i needed to hear that thanks

LegacyUser

maybe she wanted you to enter her room and make a move and the fact that you didn't meant she thought you weren't into her?