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  • 23-03-2011 11:50pm
    #1
    tupac10
    Closed Accounts Posts: 51 ✭✭


    Hi guys,

    Recently started texting this girl i was in college with... hadn't seen her in ages because she dropped out.. i always liked her but she had a boyfriend.. but few weeks a go i found out she was single again so i chanced my arm and text her nd we hit it of straight away.. things were going really well always texting and on facebook... i didn't get to meet her for few weeks as i'm on placement the other side of the country , she only lives bout 20mins from my hometown.. but i met her for lunch last week and i taught it went really well, but since then i have barely heard from her.. its like i turned a switch and completely changed her . i know he lost her phone at the weekend but emailed me on Facebook saying she got a new 1... i text her twice this week and no reply.. I know we had nothing serious so i don't want to be annoying her... I've tried to ring her but no answer..

    anyone know what I should do? i'm going mad because I'm crazy about her and she seemed to be crazy about me...

    Thank you for taking the time to read this


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  • #2
    STIG83
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,591 ✭✭✭STIG83


    Hey OP, maybe send her a FB mail to ask did she get your text, if she is a regular FB user.


  • #3
    tupac10
    Closed Accounts Posts: 51 ✭✭tupac10


    hey thanks for the feedback... she not on FB that often... it just seem really weird to me..


  • #4
    STIG83
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,591 ✭✭✭STIG83


    Did she send you her number on FB? maybe it was wrote down wrong?


  • #5
    tupac10
    Closed Accounts Posts: 51 ✭✭tupac10


    i got her number off a friend few weeks ago... she still has the same number so i dont think thats the problem...


  • #6
    STIG83
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,591 ✭✭✭STIG83


    Its a strange one OP, i guess just play the waiting game, she might be busy or something that she hasnt texted.
    Best of luck, hope it works out for ya.
    Let us know what happens.


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  • #7
    tupac10
    Closed Accounts Posts: 51 ✭✭tupac10


    Thanks STIG83 for your advice.. i hope it works out...


  • #8
    minidazzler
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,739 ✭✭✭✭minidazzler


    OP, before ye went for lunch was she aware you are interested in her romantically? or was she under the impression that ye are just friends?


  • #9
    tupac10
    Closed Accounts Posts: 51 ✭✭tupac10


    we both said we liked each other alot and we did kissed at lunch... like we've been dying to see each for the last few weeks.. so we were both romantically interested in each other... so i cant figure it out..


  • #10
    minidazzler
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,739 ✭✭✭✭minidazzler


    tupac10 wrote: »
    we both said we liked each other alot and we did kissed at lunch... like we've been dying to see each for the last few weeks.. so we were both romantically interested in each other... so i cant figure it out..

    How long is she single? She could be uneasy about getting into another relationship. If I were you I would FB message one more time and ask what the story is. Don't make the message too long just asking for clarification. Don't chase too hard, just try to find out what the story is.


  • #11
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    OP,
    It sounds like she's gotten somewhat freaked out by something. It could be the prospect of another guy really liking her when she is just recently single. Even if she does really like you, which it sounds like she does, it could be that she just isn't ready to be responsible for someone elses emotions, which may be why she has dropped contact.

    If you become too overbearing for her, you will just confirm those worries. So unfortunately I think the best thing to do is just to take a back seat on this for a bit and give her time. The more you hound her the worse you'll come across, even if she likes you she may just get more and more freaked out by the level of commitment you represent.

    If you give it a few weeks and then put yourself back on the radar, things may be a bit more normal and she may have had enough time by herself to get her head back where it needs to be before starting with someone new.


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  • #12
    JajaD
    Closed Accounts Posts: 411 ✭✭JajaD


    As a girl i would say stop texting her!! If a girl likes a guy she will move heaven and earth to talk to him. She knows where to find you. Dont pester her otherwise you will seem needy and thats a massive turn off.

    Dont contact her agian until she does Ok OP :)


  • #13
    tupac10
    Closed Accounts Posts: 51 ✭✭tupac10


    Thank everyone fr the advice... and thanks JajaD it really helps to get a girls view... and i havent been hounding her... i txt her sunday to see how she was after getting her phone stolen and then last nite asking if she was ok and no reply so i think the best thing i can do is just take a back seat and wait for her to contact me... if she will... its has my head wrecked because i really like her but what will be will be.... thanks everyone :)


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