Break up or not?

LegacyUser

Ive been going out with my Girlfriend for about a month now . Known her a few years . In secondary school . The first 2 and a bit weeks were great , hung out everyday , lots of kissing etc.. Then all of a sudden in the 3rd week she goes all sad and stuff . I then find out she still has feelings for someone else , and she feels bad that she cant feel exactly about me as i do her . I havnt hung out or been alone with her since friday and i feel like maybe i dont feel the same about her as i did . And i feel like shes not as committed as I am .

I have no idea what to do , We have so much in common , Id hate to break up

Daegerty

Tis early days yet she could come around again, no need to break up unless the other lad becomes a serious problem

Log Lady

Firstly you have to talk to her. The only way to know what she is thinking or feeling is to ask her yourself and hopefully she will be mature enough to tell you the truth.
At the very least you know she respects you enough to be honest, and should be respected for that. Can you really stay with her knowing she has feelings for someone else, or even may have feelings? If you let her go, nothing says that you two can't get back together down the road if you were truly meant to be. Right now just may not be the time. Good luck!

LegacyUser

Thanks for the advice . Were gonna hang out and talk bout things 2moro