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First Date - when to go for the kiss

  • 07-03-2011 11:32pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
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    Hi,

    Im newly back on the dating scene, met a girl online, meetimg her soon for our first date.

    Im intetested on peoples opinions, paryicularly the ladies, on when to go for the first kiss? During the date in the pub, or after?

    Thanks!


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  • #2
    LegacyUser
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    How do you know you are going to want to kiss her, or her you?!!!

    There are no rules, just do it when it's right. I wouldn't usually kiss on a first date as we are just new to each other, but on saying that i have before. You just know when the moment is right! And if it's not, then don't! There's no pressure.

    Best of luck, just chill. xx


  • #3
    LegacyUser
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    Is the date definitely taking place in a pub OP? Because depending on the time of day/ clientele/ general ambience tonsil hockey in the pub might not be the most appropriate or romantic setting for a first kiss. Have you considered places before or after the pub that might be more suitable?


  • #4
    Vicxas
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    Look, imo if its going really well and you two are feeling it id say lean in and chance your arm, but be respectful if she declines, dont take it as rejection just maybe the time wasnt right.


  • #5
    Penny Dreadful
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    When I was on my first date with my boyfriend we went for dinner and then to the pub for a drink afterward. I knew in the pub that we were getting along great and I'd like a kiss before we went our separate ways that night. I wasn't sure how we'd get around to that though.
    He walked me to a taxi and we stopped for a little, "so I had a great time" chat and then there was that silence a little look and he leaned in a little and I did too and we kissed and it was lovely. We arranged a second date, I hopped into a taxi and went home.
    I wouldn't have liked him to try to kiss me when we were in the pub at all. Maybe I'm too old for snogging in the pub now:confused:


  • #6
    LegacyUser
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    Don't do it in the pub/restaurant/wherever you're going! If you think the date has gone well, and are getting good vibes from her, wait till you're saying goodbye and then go for it. Like the poster above, I wouldn't have liked my first kiss with my bf to be in a busy pub with people sitting there looking at us!


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