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GF ignoring me!

  • 07-03-2011 8:02pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Okay so here it goes i'll try keep it as small as possible,

    Basically been with the GF a good few months now, I love her to bits and it's really annoying me,

    We basically had a crappy little fight the other night, in which I lost my head and said It's over we both spoke and both admited I over reacted and everything would be fine we would sort things through and she text me and was talking to me over the next two days,

    Then outta know where she decides to tell me she can't see me and that basically she needs space and won't even reply to me but give me a day then it went to give me a few days, I have and even when i try to attempt to get in to any contact at all she basically ignores all forms even with important things I needed to ask her in regards to a wedding i have coming up for seating (she was invited) nothing whats so ever.

    I know it's small but she's been on facebook and hasn't removed me from it, I can't even get a small text explaining anything at all and my head is wrecked i don't know what to think or whats going on! I need some help, I have never treated her badly and always done everything I could possibly to make her happy!


Comments

  • #2
    DeadlyTwig
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 112 ✭✭DeadlyTwig


    See, when a boyfriend tells a girlfriend its over, even if its just in the heat of the moment, it does play on your mind. She is probably just upset and hurt that you'd even go as far as to say that you wanted to end it. I know, as a girl, that having a guy 'break up with you' over something small can be the worst. It happened to me and my boyf a few years ago.

    At the minute she probably feels completely insecure about the relationship and is just trying to sort her head out. We like to make you guys sweat, she just wants you to realize how much she means to you, guys can easily forget.

    My only advice is, remember that once something is said, it can't be taken back and you have to deal with the consequences. So, try your best not to say anything in the heat of the moment.

    Text her and say that you love her and will give her space but that you miss her and are ready to talk whenever she is.

    Try not to worry!!


  • #3
    spinandscribble
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,000 ✭✭✭spinandscribble


    DeadlyTwig wrote: »
    We like to make you guys sweat, she just wants you to realize how much she means to you, guys can easily forget.

    Not all girls do this op, just to clarify women don't have a set way of dealing with things....

    It's true the fight and your reaction if probably playing on her mind and it does seem as the other poster suggested she's making you sweat (that's a genderless trait though).

    All you can do is ask her to reply as this behaviour is unfair if she won't give you a reason for the space needed but if she STILL won't reply, leave her be and let her come to you when she's eventually over it.


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