opinions needed

LegacyUser

Hi guys,

Just wondering, is it normal for a gay male to want to spend nearly all their time with a female. I mean drinking, socialising, eating, sharing a bed, basically sharing their life. They are not short of male attention either.

Can anyone answer this for me?

LegacyUser

maybe I did not give much information, just really wanted to know would this be normal?
let me know if you would like more information. Would appreciate some opinions on this.

isthisnormal wrote: »

Hi guys,

Just wondering, is it normal for a gay male to want to spend nearly all their time with a female. I mean drinking, socialising, eating, sharing a bed, basically sharing their life. They are not short of male attention either.

Can anyone answer this for me?

baby and crumble

Is this not just called friendship?

azezil

For some gays it doesn't seem uncommon at all. But it sometimes tends to be short lived with the gay guy eventually finding a partner, girl becomes bitter and alone then starts a thread here to complain about it

diddlybit

Wouldn't see anything wrong with this. If they're happy with the situation, then good for them.

The only thing I can infer from your post is that this close friendship is putting doubts in your head in regards to his sexuality?

Barna77

Is this not just called WIll & Grace? :rolleyes:

Now, I for one prefer to hang out with guys. Due to recession and what not most of my male mates left the country. I can't describe how much I missed a good lads night out.

I guess just do whatever makes you happy, no mater if it's with male or female company

Aishae

we all tend to have more female friends or more male friends as we get along better with one or the other. and i dont think the sex of a person comes into it when we decvelop best mates! it just means you get on great.

LegacyUser

well yes it is a friendship as someone did suggest. No its not like Will and Grace....I have many close friendships. This friendship seems a bit ott in my opinion!!! They have a partner, but want to spend all their time with girl. They have claimed to be bi then gay, they when drunk bi and so on....

is sexuality normally this confusing???

Barna77

isthisnormal11 wrote: »

is sexuality normally this confusing???

Yes, we wouldn't have this forum is it was straightforward...

Aishae

id say being straight is just an confusing at times - when it comes to the dynamics of friendships with the sex they dont drool over as well as the sex they do. seems like a perfectly normal anyone-can-have it kind of worry.

LegacyUser

Ok, maybe it is normal enough....is it normal for a gay man to get off with a girl aswell?

Fozzydog3

For me personally im quite shy and I'm only comfortable being alone with male friends that ive known for years , in my mind if im trying to be in any way funny/interesting to new guys that to them = me trying to flirt with them so with girls i can just cool the jets

Meesared

isthisnormal22 wrote: »

Ok, maybe it is normal enough....is it normal for a gay man to get off with a girl aswell?

Ive seen it happen! dunno about normal, but its not wierd anyway

LegacyUser

Yes I guess all friendships are very different. Just thought it really strange. I just turned around and there the gay bloke was grabbing the girl and getting off with her...getting stuck in....you would think they where a couple 100%. The girl does not find all this normal, and hasnt a clue why he does these things with her.

Anyway thank you for the advise.