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LegacyUser

Hi,

To get straight to the point. Me 24 and my partner 28 broke up about 6 months ago due to constant arguments ,work stress and never really go out together. We lived together and we have a 3 years old son. We still love each other but we just need time apart. We still see each other regularly and and the sex life has gone better now especially since after we had our son.

The Problem is we both have this weird feelings or thoughts that we both don't understand:

I feel - She should stay home in her house not text lad, be with any lad, kiss or sex. While I go out and have fun, drink, flirt and maybe even kiss or have sex with someone else.

She feels - I should stay home in my house not text girl , be with any girl , kiss or sex. While She go out and have fun and drink with friends, flirt and maybe even kiss someone else.

Why do we have this feels? I know I still love her so so much and I will do whatever it takes but we don't want to rush into it again.

So we bother decided to put this question up here, to seek others opinions.

She works a lot and she has our son most of the time so she is constantly tired and stressed. While I on the other side have only a part-time weekend job, I am not a big fan off going out but I do once in a while. I don't feel stress or anything.
We both don't understand why, we talk a lot more lately

Colonel_McCoy

If you both really loved eachother and have respect for each other you would never want to be with anybody else EVER. End of story