Question!

LegacyUser

Until a few nights ago I was 21 year old virgin, which didn't bother me that much as it was down to matters out of my own control which i managed to overcome (go me!), I've been seeing a guy a few years older than me for the past month and last night I had sex with him.the losing my virginity part wasn't a big deal as I'd told him about it a fortnight ago and he didn't have a problem with it, and I was just relieved to get it over with but from a guy's perspective is a relationship kind of off the table now that I've slept with him?

He seems like a lovely guy but I'm a dreadful judge of character and I'm kind of freaking out that he won't see me in the same light...but is that just the way adult relationships go?? I don't know because I haven't been in one since I was a teenager, back when relationship came first and the sex would come later..is it standard practice to sleep with someone before it's officially a boyfriend-girlfriend type thing as opposed to just dating? Am I making sense?!

So should I expect anything or does this whole thing reek of ...flingyness?? Opinions please Thanks!

Overheal

is a relationship kind of off the table now that I've slept with him?

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no.

At worst he'll find sex to be a novelty for a while but like all good things we get comfortable/used to them and you'll find yourselves doing all the relationship stuff.

In either case, don't over-examine it.