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I think I want him back

  • 25-02-2011 1:39pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
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    Broke up with the BF 4 months ago. It had turned into a bad relationship and had to end. For the first three months i did not miss him or regret the break up at all. But for the last month or so i cant stop thinking about him and how much i want him back.

    We have a child together so still see each other regularly.

    What i want to know is - should i tell him how i feel? Is it possible that we got stuck in a rut but now we've had time apart we could have a fresh start and it could work out this time?


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  • #2
    MsHolloway
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 112 ✭✭MsHolloway


    Hi op,
    I think you need to have a think about how bad the relationship got near the end? You need to really ask yourself in what way was it bad, and could it really be different this time. Do all this before you ever talk to him.

    The one thing I will say is from experience, getting back with an ex always ended the second time for the same reason as it did the first time. Whatever issue caused the first breakup nearly always raises it head again. As the saying goes " an ex is an ex for a reason".

    So have a really good think about what this reason was, and ask yourself could the two of you really get past it.


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