What is wrong with me?????!!!!!!!!

LegacyUser

Hi there, i might have an issue about my love life. I really need you guys to give advices about that coz i really dont know what to do!

OKay, so im a freshman in college and it just seems that i'm kind of afraid of the whole commitment thing, i've never really had a serious relationship before, but now i want to be serious, i want to be loved and i want to feel that i ll always have this someone who'll always be there for me no matter what, and who take good care of me and who loves me...

I tried, i did my best. I dated this guy who was 22 and I'm 19, he was so smart and handsome and funny and cool and everything...he was really perfect and more mature than any other guy i dated before. I really liked that about him. We dated for not even a month, and during that period he tried once in a while to touch me, to take my hand, to make me feel confortable, to be romantic you know, even though it wasnt new for me, i didnt felt like kissing him or cuddlin him... i thought i wasnt ready for it, so i told him that i wasnt ready to commit and that i didnt felt confortable with him....

This other guy too who i dated was my age and was really cooool and funny and spontanious, we were having fun like kids and i felt confortable and relaxed with him, but in a certain time i felt bored and i dumped him!!

Now i think about that and each time i see those guys i really regret, and i think to myself maybe if i just tried harder, if i was more patient i would be happy right now!

Each time i meet a new guy i try to stay as much long as possible but i dont know what is wrong with me!! at the end im the one who stays alone and single, all my friends stayed with the same person from the beginning of the year, and im so jealous when i look at them so happy together!!

HELP MEE!! I'm desperate, i feel guilty and confused, i dont know whats wrong with, i dont know what to doo???

Pure Sound

Relax, you are still very young to be considering serious relationships, there is no rush when it comes to things like this and there are plenty of people that you are yet to meet, don't just settle because your friends are doing it. In time those friends will be jealous of you because you are not tied down. When the time and person is right you will know about it.

Chuchoter

You're 19, relax. You have all the time in the world. I'd be more worried if you said you wanted to marry all these guys after going out a month. You sound American (just going on Freshman, could be wrong now), but the done thing in America is to be in big huge serious relationships at a young age, personally I don't think thats the best way of doing things. Focus on meeting lots of people, finding out what and who you want and furthering your career and education

LegacyUser

OKay, you're probably right. I'll do my best and try to relax. Thank you so much! and just so u know im not american and i dont live in america! Lol! :P