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Not sure how to handle situation

  • 22-02-2011 12:48pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hey guys need some advice

    Iv been seeing this girl for a good few months and we get on like a house on fire,always have an awesome time with her and im really attracted to her and i let her know that and i tell her i love her and she tells me the same thing,i even send her flowers in work and the like just so she knows im thinking of her but today she thinks she saw me checking out another woman(which i wasnt,infact i make a special effort not to stare at any other woman with or without her beside me) and now she is wont let it go ,i keep telling her i didnt but now she is saying im not her type as the woman was blonde and she has black hair,now granted it is her time of the month but im getting very nervous she might break up with me over this and i didnt even do anything,i love this woman to bits and would be devasted if she broke up with me.

    Any advice on what i should do?


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  • #2
    Beruthiel
    Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 42,362 Mod ✭✭✭✭Beruthiel


    notsurehowtohandlesstiuation wrote: »
    now she is saying im not her type as the woman was blonde and she has black hair,now granted it is her time of the month but im getting very nervous she might break up with me over this and i didnt even do anything,i love this woman to bits and would be devasted if she broke up with me.

    You're girlfriend sounds like a spoiled little princess.
    You need to stop acting like a doormat. Next time she starts, tell her to cop the hell on. Tell her that you've got eyes in your head and if Brad Pitt/Antonio Banderas/Whatever hot dude of choice, happened to walk by her on the street, bet your sweet ass she'd look.
    Remind her that you are with her and just because you are on a diet, doesn't mean you can't look at the odd menu.

    BTW OP, if she breaks up with you over this, then thank your lucky stars as she is clearly a girl with issues and will only wreck your head.


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Beruthiel wrote: »
    Remind her that you are with her and just because you are on a diet, doesn't mean you can't look at the odd menu.

    OP, I do think your girlfriend is overreacting and it could well be related to her time of the month, she may be feeling insecure and just needs an extra bit of reassurance that you love her.

    But I'm telling you, if my boyfriend said what's highlighted above to me, he would be in a LOT of trouble!


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