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  • 21-02-2011 11:47pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Female, 20, unreg for this as my love life is very complex on boards ! So lets stay objective!

    Have a bad track record, full of cheaters, creeps and immature boys.

    Recently out of a 2mth relationship about 6weeks now. He cheated. Turned out to be a horrible guy afterwards so lucky escape.

    However, while i was with him, I met another guy through a few college friends.. We hit it off. However at the time, I was with that weasel.

    Anyway, after my break up, we got chattin on fb, turns out ive ALOT in common with this guy. We've been flirty texting constantly since, and hes invited me on nights out etc but im working alot recently and i have college. Im going out wednesday with my friends and hes gonna be there.

    Heres my dilemma, how should i act? Should i keep the friendly vibe going for a while until i know him better? Or should i just have fun and if we kiss, we kiss.
    I just want to hang onto a guys interest for once?

    I just, dont wanna be a girl he scored, i think we get on waaaaay too well. So boardsies, tell me how not to mess this up for myself?

    Do's and dont's???


Comments

  • #2
    Slydice
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,501 ✭✭✭✭Slydice


    if you get a moment to speak without others listening or gawking into your business, then ask him out on a date


  • #3
    Des Carter
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 720 ✭✭✭Des Carter


    Dont think about it. Just go out, have fun and whatever happens happens. Your just gonna wreck your head if you go out with a "plan" so just go with the flow. However my only advice would be to not get too drunk and good luck :).


  • #4
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Ok change of plan.
    I wasnt able to go wednesday night. Circumstances outta my control!!!!

    What now? Wait till the next night out? Or just bite the bullet and ask does he wanna meet for coffee? I think thats weird though...cause i never asked a guy before !!


  • #5
    Count Duckula
    Closed Accounts Posts: 570 ✭✭✭Count Duckula


    Trust me, if he likes you back he'll find it amazing that you've asked him out for coffee. The same way that girls like to be asked out to make them feel good, so do men. We're no different.

    Ask him, you've nothing to lose, and I guarantee there's every chance you'll give the best initial impression you can give.


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