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  • 21-02-2011 11:25pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi everyone, right i'll keep it short
    I was out friday night (i'm a woman) met a guy in a club
    We got talking, kissed, he asked for my number. Now i'm old enough to know that scoring random guys in clubs giving them your number and expecting them to actually call you is laughable. If a guy i meet out asks for my number i'll always give it, i'm pretty good at reading guys and i always know the ones who will txt/call and those who are just asking out of politeness/trying to get a shag so to be honest when a guy doesn't call its water off a ducks back. I don't know why i'm so disappointed that this guy hasn't texted/called i really thought he would he's the first guy i've met in ages (in general) that i really liked :(

    I have his number and i can't decide to delete it or send him a text? Guys if you took a girls number you weren't into and she texted you would you think she was desperate? My friends all tell me to just leave it but there was just something about him! i really want to get in contact with him again but the rational part of me thinks if he actually gave a crap he'd have made contact. What to do?


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  • #2
    johnr1
    Closed Accounts Posts: 965 ✭✭✭johnr1


    If you want to text him, then just text him, when did you agree that he must text first ?

    Would you consider him desperate if he texts you ? No. - Well then why should it be any different if you do ?

    I assume that you're a grown woman, - act like one.



    EDIT ; I dont mean to sound harsh, but this question comes up repeatedly, and its disappointing to hear the advice all your friends gave.


  • #3
    Monkey09
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 366 ✭✭Monkey09


    I'd go for it OP!

    Afterall, u've got nothing to loose.


  • #4
    Wompa1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,193 ✭✭✭Wompa1


    Your friends are idiots. Text him.


  • #5
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Sent him a text around lunch time and he hasn't replied so that's that. Wow it really does shatter your confidence, won't be doing that again in a hurry :(. Oh well maybe he got a laugh out of it at least, i guess he was a little out of my league. Anyway thanks for the replies.


  • #6
    Wompa1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,193 ✭✭✭Wompa1


    desperate? wrote: »
    Sent him a text around lunch time and he hasn't replied so that's that. Wow it really does shatter your confidence, won't be doing that again in a hurry :(. Oh well maybe he got a laugh out of it at least, i guess he was a little out of my league. Anyway thanks for the replies.

    Come on now, why do you think he was out of your league?


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  • #7
    Wompa1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,193 ✭✭✭Wompa1


    I'm looking at getting on the dating scene again, if you're around Galway I could do with the morale boost myself...but odds are this guy is just playing games, I'm sure you're a nice girl and he's just doing the line


  • #8
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    I'm looking at getting on the dating scene again, if you're around Galway I could do with the morale boost myself...but odds are this guy is just playing games, I'm sure you're a nice girl and he's just doing the line
    Come on now, why do you think he was out of your league?
    nowhere near galway i'm afraid! He was a just a really nice polite well mannered guy- pretty rare these days and easy on the eye and actually seemed genuine or so i thought...lol my bulls**t detector must be broken!
    Come on OP, dont let some random guy make you feel sh*t about yourself.

    Not worth it, it really isn't You got a nice snog and had a good time.
    Thanks :)


  • #9
    kerryman12
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 940 ✭✭✭kerryman12


    Hi Op
    Sent him a text around lunch time and he hasn't replied so that's that. Wow it really does shatter your confidence, won't be doing that again in a hurry . Oh well maybe he got a laugh out of it at least, i guess he was a little out of my league. Anyway thanks for the replies.

    Dont do that to yourself OP. You were right to txt him, life is short and "what if's" count for nothing.

    Best of luck


  • #10
    omega666
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 605 ✭✭✭omega666


    desperate? wrote: »
    nowhere near galway i'm afraid! He was a just a really nice polite well mannered guy- pretty rare these days and easy on the eye and actually seemed genuine or so i thought...lol my bulls**t detector must be broken!


    Thanks :)



    dont worry about it. he or she who dares wins! Delete his number.
    Theres tons of nice well mannered guys floating about.

    I wouldnt agree with the other posters though, if i asked for a girls number
    and i was interested in the girl then you can bet i would text or call and i woulnt be waiting for her to do it.


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