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omg i hate my life so much

  • 20-02-2011 4:02pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    this is easily the worst ive ever felt in my life.....im just so upset and i just want the ground 2 swallow me up so bad. everyone makes fun of me for everything how i look, how socially awkward i am, how retarded i am etc. and i feel so bad i dont mind people making fun of me i can laugh at myself but theres only so much you can take before it really hits your confidence. i dont want to be all emotional about it but i just dont think anyone is on my side. there is this girl and shes prob the closest girl friend i have and i also have the biggest crush on her ever and shes normally so flirty with me and i thought mayb she likes me, one of our friends thinks she is madly in love with me and then one of our friends was like he said he fancied you which i did but obviously to her face i denied it straight away but i hate sayin to her face i dont fancy her...but then later on she said she thinks im gross :( im actually so depressed since she said that :(


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  • #2
    Zen65
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,630 ✭✭✭Zen65


    sodown wrote: »
    this is easily the worst ive ever felt in my life.....

    ...then one of our friends was like he said he fancied you which i did but obviously to her face i denied it straight away but i hate sayin to her face i dont fancy her...but then later on she said she thinks im gross :( im actually so depressed since she said that :(

    Op,

    Your post reads like the writing of a young teenager, and immaturity is normal at your age. From what I can understand of your post, you are feeling miserable because this girl reacted to your lie by saying she thinks you're gross?

    I'm guessing her feelings were hurt by you, and she lashed back at you.

    You can chalk this up to experience and move on, or you can try to redress the damage you did by talking to her, telling her that you are sorry that you lied, and coming clean about how you feel about her.

    She may reject you anyway. She has already rejected you so you have nothing to lose. What you could gain from this is maturity, the maturity to stop playing the childish games of a young boy. If you approach future possible relationships with greater maturity you may actually have more success, and happier outcomes.

    Be at peace,

    Z


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