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(one for women)my cousin with confidence issues...advice??

grehan · 2011-02-14 17:47:34

hey guys just wanted to ask the women here a couple of questions regarding a cousin of mine.... basically one of my cousins has a major confidence issue in regards to talking to women, reason being is because he has this mild twitching/shaking thing with his head and body that comes and goes, due to anxiety he tells me…

14-02-2011 5:47pm

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grehan

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hey guys just wanted to ask the women here a couple of questions regarding a cousin of mine.... basically one of my cousins has a major confidence issue in regards to talking to women, reason being is because he has this mild twitching/shaking thing with his head and body that comes and goes, due to anxiety he tells me cause hes got it checked out and the doc gave him the all clear, its hardly even noticable at times! and the upsetting thing about it is that hes a great lookin bloke! i mean hes a personal trainer and mad into his fitness and really looks after himself, and before he had this thing he used to have no problems with confidence what so ever, had no problems talking to women on a night out or whatever! plus hes only 23 as well! hes just afraid that if he goes to talk to some girl and he has this twitching thing going on, that theyll percieve him as some kind of freak or something even though hes the soundest lad ever and dead easy to get on with!....basically my question is girls, if you were on a night out, and a real good looking bloke, who was in great shape, great personality and all that jazz started talking to you at the bar or whatever and was twitching/shaking or whatever would you either A) just feel embarrassed and rather not talk to him? or talk to him regardless,get to see that hes a decent lad and all and not give a crap if he was twitching?........just wanna see what women would think about this! thanks guys

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#2 14-02-2011 5:54pm

Ickle Magoo

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grehan,

If you read the forum rules in the charter you'll see that this is a forum for asking advice on personal issue you are having - it's not for polling one gender on what they'd do in a particular hypothetical scenario.

All the best. :cool:

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