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  • 07-02-2011 6:45pm
    #1
    Lexii307
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 189 ✭✭


    i am in a bit of a situation. My friends have been pointing out and making fun of me because of a person i like. Unfortunately this person is off limits and is completely straight. Now the problem is i cant stop thinking about her. What do i do? :(


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  • #2
    TouchingVirus
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,584 ✭✭✭TouchingVirus


    Doesn't sound a whole lot like they're friends to me


  • #3
    Lexii307
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 189 ✭✭Lexii307


    i thought about that and the funny thing is the main one is gay (guy). I really need help with this because i see her everyday!!!


  • #4
    Coeurdepirate
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,576 ✭✭✭Coeurdepirate


    Lexii307 wrote: »
    i am in a bit of a situation. My friends have been pointing out and making fun of me because of a person i like. Unfortunately this person is off limits and is completely straight. Now the problem is i cant stop thinking about her. What do i do? :(
    I feel for you, it's a horrible situation which I've been facing constantly for about 2 years. :P


  • #5
    Lexii307
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 189 ✭✭Lexii307


    Yep its painfull! And to not only have it pointed out everytime time i see her but have to ensure that nearly everyday of the week. Its a loose loose situation for me :( I cant really focus anymore


  • #6
    Dr. Baltar
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,252 ✭✭✭Dr. Baltar


    Take my advice and laugh it off.


    If someone says "You're X" and you react negatively, a group will continue to call you X because they know how to grind your gears. Next time they tease you about this girl just respond positively, jokingly and satirically. It always works for me.


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  • #7
    Killer_banana
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,759 ✭✭✭Killer_banana


    Oh I've been there too many times and it's awful. I really feel for you. Unfortunately there really isn't much oyu can do. All you can do is wait until you get over her. sorry I cna't give you better advice.

    As for your friends I agree with Dr. Baltar.


  • #8
    Lexii307
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 189 ✭✭Lexii307


    Dr. Baltar wrote: »
    Take my advice and laugh it off.


    If someone says "You're X" and you react negatively, a group will continue to call you X because they know how to grind your gears. Next time they tease you about this girl just respond positively, jokingly and satirically. It always works for me.

    Thats what i do but it doesn't work because they do it more. I try to forget about her but they make it impossible for me to


  • #9
    Aishae
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,800 ✭✭✭Aishae


    the sad truth is we wont always have crushes on other gay people, you fant really help your feelings. ive been there - it stinks...

    they dont sound like friends - they sound like people who discovered your current weak spot and are scratching away at it. cos they get a reaction from you and they know it ticks you off. they dont even think 'this must hurt her, we should stop'
    id suggest do your best not to react in any way - dont even bother saying 'will you cut that out?' if you ignore that rubbish they will hopefully find something else to occupy themselves with.


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