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should I wait for him to call?

  • 01-02-2011 8:38pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    ok boardsies, quick show of hands....

    met a guy two weeks ago (fri night)and got chatting in a bar, brought him home had pretty good sex and he slept cuddling me all night, woke up to his little kisses and he said goodbye, left his number. I txted him mine and he replied saying he had a lovely night thanks and he'll call for a drink.

    so the following week we met for drinks on thurs (he invited me out) and had a lovely night, he couldn't go home with me due to college commitments but we shared some really sweet kisses. he mentioned that he was in the middle of his masters ,and will be moving in a few months to another country - i also think in a few weeks he's going away for a month, so he said he didn't have time for anything serious. he also said he'd call me on sunday/during the week to meet up.

    now, didn't hear from him sunday, and haven't heard from him yet. shld I leave him to text me? I don't want to seem too pushy or forward after what he said, and considering I took him home the first time, and he turned me down to go home with me the next time...I'd imagine it's up to him to make the move for another date? I don't want to push too much if he's not interested


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  • #2
    mrpink6789
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 830 ✭✭✭mrpink6789


    He said he doesnt want anything serious but it sounds like you might so maybe have a think whether if he is going to call or do you really want him to call?

    He might also be just busy if he is in the middle of a masters, deadlines to get done etc. Wednesday is usually a good time to make plans for the weekend so if he hasnt text u text him tomorrow evening asking how is week is going, any plans for the weekend?


  • #3
    Pyr0
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,967 ✭✭✭Pyr0


    Send him a casual text about something you've talked about that wouldn't seem mad serious, see if he replies really.


  • #4
    IrishEyes19
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,861 ✭✭✭IrishEyes19


    Depends on what you want from this, OP, be prepared that he may not want to meet up again. He doesnt want anything serious so I wouldnt be surprised if he's just on the prowl at the moment. If you're happy for a very casual random relationship until he moves away, go for it. But otherwise be careful you dont get attached. All the best. :)


  • #5
    Peanut2011
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,001 ✭✭✭Peanut2011


    OP wake up and read your post again!

    You were his booty call and he was yours. He told you he is moving away and is quite busy. It could have just been ONS and he met up with you again just to see if he wanted more or not.

    Obviously he does not since he refused you that time and never called since.

    Sorry to be so blunt but you calling him again will only make you look needy and pushy.


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