What to do..??

LegacyUser

Ok.. I got a Spanish girl's phone no. a while back and was texting her and when she came back after x-mas i texted her and i said id go and meet her after work..so we met in a bar and chatted and eventually she set up her friend with a guy!!
I then realised it was just me and her so i made a move..we kissed..we went out side to another bar..kissed a lot ,catching hands a lot..we had some beer and she was a little drunk but eventually she had to go home and she said "i dont want to go " a lot.. I said we could meet up again..
So when i got home i got a text to say "im really nice" and i responded saying i liked her a lot too..
So the next day we chatted on facebook and she asked me if i had many girlfriends..we flirted etc and she told me that nobody ever made her feel as good as i did..lots of kissing etc..she also said she hasnt kissed anyone for a few months
Anyway we chatted again on thursday and i asked her wat she was doing for the weekend and i asked her would she like to do something on sunday..so she said she didnt know yet if she was free and she would text me..no text..so i texted her..no reply.. on facebook chat then i saw her and i started a chat thinking she may not have had credit..she responded saying she busy was watching a movie..what the hell..she could pause it? so i left..

Also ive been following her facebook updates ! one of them said she was in love, another one said I might be in ireland longer than expected another i really like him..another one a quote from the script sayin i shouldnt let myself fall in love or something
And then she wrote stuff on her friend's wall saying stuff like " i cant believe dat and james are in th same uni, we must go there" (is it to make me jealous?)

Anybody who helps me out here I apreciate it soo much, I was thinking about giving her 3 days and maybe sending a message on facebook..

mrpink6789

Looks like an odd one dude. To be honest you have done more then enough with regards getting in contact with her. She might know this and love you chasing her. I'd cool the jets for a bit and let her get in contact with you. Dont play any mind games like she is with the facebook junk, just leave her for a few days, if she doesnt contact you its not meant to be.

Wompa1

Presumably your not James? I'd forget her for now. If she gets back to you proceed with caution if not, just move on.

Package

yep, id have to say she just got carried away when she had a few drinks. i would say withough a shadow of a doubt that you are a backup plan.

now i am happy being a backup plan for a hot spanish girl, but are you? can you leave your emotions at the door for a piece of ass? if not, your gonna get burned dude

LegacyUser

ya.now i feel like sending her a message on facebook and find out whats going on..just im so taken up by her..
Thanks for the responses guys..

mrpink6789

it if will give you closure dude why not. best of luck!

IrishEyes19

I actually wouldnt contact her again personally, not that I believe in playing games but more out of self respect, OP, she's blown you off twice now with not replying to the text and then not even being respectful when you brought up chat, Clearly she wasnt that busy if she was on facebook and watching tv too. Id let this one slide, if she wants something, she'd go for it.

MsHolloway

I also would not contact her again. You have already tried to contact and for whatever reason she hasn't gotten replied yet. The ball is now in her court. I would suggest leaving it to her to contact you next.