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What if it never comes around again

  • 24-01-2011 12:27pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi everyone,

    I had a relationships where I felt completely and absolutley connected to the guy in every possible way. We were compatible on so many levels. I never bought into the soul mates thing but this guy made me believe it. For reasons I won't go into here the relationship ended but not by my choice. Very complicated.

    Have tried so hard to move on but it's really tough. He is in my thoughts 24/7.

    I am afraid that I will never meet anyone who I feel this way about again. Is this something that you have to accept in life the one that got away? I am afraid that I won't be able to meet anyone else and be happy with them because this guy set the bar so high.

    Does anyone else feel like this? Does this mean that you lower your standards/settle?

    Am so confused...........

    Thanks


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  • #2
    IrishEyes19
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,861 ✭✭✭IrishEyes19


    Hi OP, I think every relationship is different. Its totally normal to feel that way about someone when you break up especially if you really fell for them and cared about them more than anyone before.

    But I really do believe that you will get over someone and you will find someone else who touches you in a different way. If its not meant to be, its not meant to be. But you have to put yourself out there. The worse torture of a break up is the torture we put ourselves through, the self doubt, the misery, the wondering if they will come back and wondering if they are thinking about us. Im pretty sure the person who did the breaking up, feelings are less tortured than that. You need to break free now from this and try your best to move on.


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