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Nice vs Sly

  • 23-01-2011 4:55pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I was in a pub the other night and me and a few of my mates got talking to these girls, I had the hots for one of the girls as did so did one of my "friends" (only invited as he walked in while someone else was being asked) but as the night continued I noticed that she was looking over at me a lot but we moved pub to a place that was a more busy and louder. My friend grabbed the change to dance with her and buy her drinks leaving me with her not so hot friend and I didnt want to be mean so I chatted to her friend as she was left on her own (which some people got the idea that I liked her).

    The two of them rejoined the group and my friend wasnt getting any where (as he wasnt actually talking to her) so I started chatting/flirting with her and any time I wasnt I caught her looking at me. I just wanted to take her out of the group and maybe I could try my luck but while I was trying to think of ways to get us on our own I started thinking how my mate might feel if I get with her (as I have been there and it isnt nice [he has something that makes you feel sorry for him]) and I think the not so girl kinda liked me (I do have my reasons I am not being big headed or anything) so I decided it was just best for everyone bar me just not to do anything.

    Anyway the night ended and nobody got any where. She added me on FB (her friend found me and that is how she found my profile) which would be fine as I could just keep in contact and meet them again. Only problem is we live on other sides of the county as we where both only Dublin by chance. So it is unlikely that we meet up again. Also she didnt add my friend.

    I am now just left annoyed due to the fact I had a real chance and after reflecting on it I shouldnt of felt sorry for my mate as he was just being greedy as he had been kinda seeing this other girl.

    So what I am asking is really how can could I of taken the girl out of the group but still not coming across as sly dickhead so that I will know for future?


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  • #2
    cats.life
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 884 ✭✭✭cats.life


    for a start ,do you know the saying ''if you snooz you'll loose''? keep contact on facebook, meet up on your own next time.you dont need mates around you now that you have chated to her.just keep in contact and arrange to meet some where that you know your mates wont be.


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