Concerned for my mate

LegacyUser

I want other people opinions on this, my mate has recently set up a small company and we've done things cheap, I would get stuff done in work etc... and he'd use my house to promote things etc.. anyway over the last few months I've notice a change in his behaver when he's out drinking he gets bit aggressive not voilent but starts shouting from "I don't give a B if anyone has a problem or they can fcuk off if they have issues etc.... he him self admit when he's drunk he's always on the phone giving out about this and that to various people, he's starting to do that with me now, moaning about this and that and even saying why my family don't support it etc.. calling them w**kers and a holes etc.. on the phone,

I'm getting to this stage where I hang up on him and tell him stop slagging my family off also I support what your doing I don't give a crap if others do etc.. if people he hangs around with heard what he says to them they'd be shocked I think this guy has become too paranoid (esp with drink) that people are going to turn on them etc..



what should I do I have said he should calm down on drink he knows that but doesn't listen

Denerick

I know he is your mate and all, but sometimes some people really are simply toxic. My advice would be to tell him to grow the hell up as you're getting sick of it. If he still acts like an eejit then you should simply drop him as a mate (As in, stop calling him when you're going out, make him do all the running until he gets the message)

Remember, you can choose your friends. If this was your brother I'd advise something else entirely.