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21, going on a date never been kissed

  • 20-01-2011 7:54pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
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    like the title says im 21 and im going on a date on saturday and ive never been kissed. ive had the chance to kiss guys before but bottled it because of nerves, but i really like this guy and im so worried, we get along so well and if he moves in to kiss me i obviously want to kiss him back.

    i dont know what to do tho, and i mean i dont have a clue - very clear and obvious instruction is needed! what do i do? how do i kiss? how do i know if im being a bad kisser or not? will he be able to tell its my first kiss? i really need help with this.


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  • #2
    LegacyUser
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    Dont worry! You'll know what to do when it happens. Be gentle, dont be a hoover. Enjoy it your first kiss is something very special regardless of what age you are.


  • #3
    Sundew
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    Oh what I'd give to be 21 again :)
    Check this video out from Videojug.
    http://www.videojug.com/film/how-to-kiss-for-the-first-time
    Hopefully you will get some more tips on here.

    Good luck with your date on saturday


  • #4
    Firetrap
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,442 ✭✭✭Firetrap


    Don't over-analyse this. As the others have said, it's something that oddly, you'll know what to do when the time comes. There's a moment when you know he's coming in for the kiss and then that's it. As long as you're not like the aforementioned hoover and try to suck the face off him, or your lips have about as much life in them as a dead fish, all will be well. Let him take the lead and you'll figure it out. Honestly. Oh, and good luck :D


  • #5
    Mackman
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,810 ✭✭✭Mackman


    Oh the excitment of that fist kiss!

    It'll be obvious when he's goin on for the kiss. Just open your mouth slightly and do what he does. Dont slobber or hoover as mentioned already. Simple :)


  • #6
    [Deleted User]
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    helpppp! wrote: »
    how do i know if im being a bad kisser or not? will he be able to tell its my first kiss? i really need help with this.



    Don't worry about being a bad kisser. People have different styles, Just like dancing. Sometimes it takes a while for the two styles to fit together.
    For this reason, he won't have any idea that it's your first kiss.


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  • #7
    LegacyUser
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    I was also 21 for my first kiss! Just let him lead, and you'll know what to do. If he puts his hands at the back of your head, do the same to him, or if he puts his hands on your arm, do the same. You will find at the time though that you won't really be thinking about these things and you'll just get a natural instinct of what to do.

    He won't be able to tell its your first kiss at all, don't worry about that. I have now kissed a lot of boys, never really found a "bad" kisser, everyone has a different style. To me I find the best kiss is from someone I really like, as opposed to just some guy I've met in a nightclub. He's taking you on a date, so he does like you and if he wants to kiss you, I guarantee he will enjoy it, because that shows he really likes you. Stop worrying and it will come naturally!


  • #8
    starlit
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    Just go for it. It will come naturally too you. Go slow and don't rush it. A small short kiss be a start and gradually make it more passionate but take your time with it. Don't think about it just do it! You be relieved when you have done so and the rush of adrenaline is amazing. You want to kiss more! Go at your own pace at least. I was in my late teens before I had my first proper kiss (french kiss) so don't worry about it age is just a number! Kiss when the time is right and when you are ready. If you feel ready to do so with a partner in mind whether random, potential date/bf or on a night out maybe ask a volunteer of one of your non attached male friends or a guy you know (could be your exeperiment). Best to do so with the person you feel is right for you to kiss! You can worry about the techniques afterwards but go with the flow what ever you and your partner feel comfortable with. Best of luck.


  • #9
    Fluorescence
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    You'll know when he's going in for the kiss, don't worry. Best to start off closed mouth, and use only small amounts of tongue until you get used to it. I was with a guy once who used to ram his tongue RIGHT into my mouth without preamble, it was disgusting :mad:. So long as you just take it easy and follow his lead, you'll be grand!

    Have fun :P


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