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  • 17-01-2011 9:26pm
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    LegacyUser
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    I'm looking for a few ppls views on something

    I live with three guys, and am friendly with them and sometimes go out socially with them, it's a nice arrangment.

    One of the guys has a group of friends that I've been out with a few times, they all work together. usually anytime I get invited out on social events its with this group. Now, one of the flatmates friends (part of the group) I think fancies me, and well, I wouldn't mind going on a few dates with him, more just something low key...I don't think he's someone I'd date. I say this because there is a language barrier (I live abroad) and I don't think he's looking for something serious, me neither.

    Now - my flatmate works with him as well as being his friend, the same for everyone in the group. Also, one of the girls in the group has kissed him before and wants more with him but he has no interest. Would I be completely shooting myself in the foot, risk causing ructions in teh group if anything happened with the guy? I don't want to upset the other girl....is it crossing the line to hook up with him? I shld point out that I only know this group from a few nights out- I'm not close to any of them, just my flatmate.

    I don't think my flatmate would have a problem - I know he had a fling with his friend's flatmate and both were cool with it and it ended naturally with no problems.


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