thinking too far ahead?

LegacyUser

So I've been seeing my gf for about 3 month now, all going great, meet up a few times a week, she stays over etc etc etc.

So last night we were out with a few of her friends and one of them who is going on holiday in November said I will be there with my gf, of course I was like ha yeah dont want to be thinking too far ahead etc and we had a joke about it, this is the second time she has said it.

So today I text my girlfriend saying I had a great weekend with her and i know her friend is joking about me maybe going to the holiday with them but i dont like thinking too far ahead in case it freaks thing out but if i am still going out with her in november I will be one lucky man, i hope that doesnt freak you out too much

She hasnt replied to that text. I was just wondering by joking about it like that did it tweak it in her head that I may be jumping the gun a bit and thinking too far ahead or am i just overthinking! Do women like things being planned ahead or is that too far ahead?

kerryman12

Nothing wrong with thinking so far ahead, it is my favourate pass time.
do women like to plan stuff, in my experiance oh god yes -YES.
so factor that into you planing in future!

I am always very slow to discuss topics like this by text/email/PM or generally the written format. The problem is that two people reading the same PM for example, can interpret it completly differently.

Call her dude.

Wompa1

It depends on your relationship. If it's strong enough and you feel like thinking ahead express your feelings to her in person and see what happens. Might as well be up front and honest