What do the guys think?

blondy555

I met a 34 year old Leo Guy 18 months ago, Im gemini 29 year old.

We hit it off and as we live two hours apart, we met up a few times over a couple of months until he lost his job and moved back to Kerry.At the time he was just out of a two year relationship and i didnt see the point in persuing him seriously although i fancied him like mad.
We were then 5 hours apart and for various reasons we didnt meet up for 7 months, however he rang me twice a week and a great friendship has grown out of it. We talk for an hour or so a few times a week and i love hearing from him. He always rings me, I only ever ring him if i missed his call.

Last week he moved to my area for work and we met up a few nights ago for the first time in 7 months. We stayed together but nothing happened as i wanted to wait. We had a wonderful evening of laughs and kissing and cuddling. I quess I would like advice on where I should go from here as I would love a relationship with this man. I dont want it to fall back to a friendship thing or a collection of one night stands. I dont feel that there is any need to confront him on this yet as i dont want to scare him off, im just wondering if i should play it cool and hold off on sex as much as i want it! Should i go for it and show all my affection and hope i dont get hurt.

Otis Driftwood

Hi Blondy,tGC is not a forum to get mens opinions on relationship issues so Ive moved your thread to a specific forum for just that.

Silverfish

Already a thread on this here so I'll close this one.