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  • 12-01-2011 1:04am
    #1
    dunbar
    Closed Accounts Posts: 13 ✭


    Hey guys,

    I just need some advice here. Ive been going out with my girlfriend for 5 years, and i'm really starting to get the impression i need to get a ring out. She's not putting pressure on me, its people around me, her sister joking, my brother joking and other comments about the length of time we've been together. We're in a situation where we can't live together, we're both in college but i don't think i'm ready to get engaged yet. What do i do? will i ever feel ready????

    please any advice!!


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  • #2
    allovertheshop
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 70 ✭✭allovertheshop


    once you and your girlfriend are okay with the situation that you both are in, then it doesn't matter a toss what other people are saying to you.
    If you have spoken to your girlfriend and pointed out that while you realise that you've been together for 5+ years but now is not the time for marriage, then everything should be okay.

    don't be put under pressure from others to do something that is not right for you


  • #3
    TheNewMee
    Closed Accounts Posts: 62 ✭✭TheNewMee


    If you don't want to get engaged, don't; it doesn't matter who's putting pressure on you to pop the question. You didn't really say what your girlfriend's opinion on this is but you should discuss it with her anyway - if ye're both still in college I'd be surprised if she was rushing to get married as well.


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