Getting back in the game

LegacyUser

I would like some thoughts on the following please.

I haven't been in a relationship for almost three years. A mixture of health complications, going to college and being thoroughly disheartened by how the last guy turned out resulted in me having little or no interest in sex or relationships (apart from some excruciatingly embarassing drunken lunges)

I noticed a guy a few months ago, got on well and he popped into my head from time to time but I didn't give it too much thought.

I live in Dublin and usually head to the same pubs and clubs.

I met him again recently and we chatted and laughed for ages, he was standing really close to me and we were really buzzing.

He ended up taking my number, there was talks of a party but then the person having it just went to bed so that didn't happen. (That's why he asked me to put my number in his phone)

I really like this guy and I think it was obvious there was a spark there. However, I'm afraid of liking him because I'm so long out of the game.

It's kind of worse knowing he has my number and hasn't used it. Not that he said he would or anything, just wishful thinking on my part I guess.

I need to relax and stop making him out to be some kind of Mr Perfect, I'd really like to get to know him as a friend but I rarely see him, only on the odd night out.

If he liked me he would have used my number right? Or maybe he's just waiting until we meet casually again?

Gah confused.

chicken fingers

Hes into you but too shy to call you.
He wouldn´t have taken your number otherwise.

LegacyUser

Thanks for that chicken fingers, I hope it's true and I did get a good feeling from him.

Guess I'll just wait and see what happens. It's just so long since I've felt any bit of interest in a guy that I'm nervous as hell about this one.