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  • 08-01-2011 12:25am
    #1
    bangjax
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9 ✭


    ok fast version ! got engaged which we both wanted, plans nd hse preperations all made prior then on our first big engagment after going on bended knee fierce row. she basically made me look like a 'nothing to her and then ignored me, to the point of embarrassment to company , for two months then all back in love like it was just a little tiff. which it was not. tried talking to her but got bull****, yeah yeah answers. during this time i seen a new side to her which i hate. an ignorant selfish side and while it was me who fought for our relationship something is missing . i dont look at her the same and am antertaining thoughts of two timing or looking for someone else before its two late. have i fallen out of love or is this just part of a long relationship. she completely made me feel like ****e and it doesnt matter because that just suited her at the time !! should i get out now or see if the old feelings come back ?


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  • #2
    Ali Babba
    Closed Accounts Posts: 874 ✭✭✭Ali Babba


    Get out now, this is just the start and it won't get any better, been there, seen that.......


  • #3
    I am a friend
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,479 ✭✭✭I am a friend


    So why would you stay with her?


  • #4
    FoxT
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,204 ✭✭✭FoxT


    don't walk, RUN away.


  • #5
    Josh_Calvert
    Closed Accounts Posts: 134 ✭✭Josh_Calvert


    let some other poor sap get collared...run for your life mate.


  • #6
    mariebeth
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 892 ✭✭✭mariebeth


    If you're feeling like this OP, then get out of the relationship. I know it'll be a really difficult thing especially with an engagement, but life is too short to be unhappy. This girl treated you like sh1t, and it has made you look at her differently. It is very difficult to get your feelings for someone back, I've been there and in the end I ended the relationship with my ex because I couldn't get the same feelings back.


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  • #7
    astra2000
    Closed Accounts Posts: 734 ✭✭✭astra2000


    Am I reading this correctly she continued this way for TWO MONTHS? If that is the case get out now that is not normal, we all have rows but that is crazy she sounds a bit loopy tbh.


  • #8
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    I think this is a blessing in disguise.
    I recommend reading some books on this type of person...I think one of them is a really famous one and is something like "that B***"....it may open your eyes.
    She did not even apologize when you asked for an explaination.

    Have you met her friends and family....a bit of background might help.


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