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Should I just say I don't think it will work?

  • 06-01-2011 1:58am
    #1
    LegacyUser
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    I met a girl on line recently about 2 weeks ago and she lives quite far away. Not insanely far away but far enough that ever meeting her is a big expedition and I can't tell my parents about her so I have to lie to meet her which I hate doing and its really stressful. We met up once, and I liked her but I don't know if I like her enough to put in all the effort and stress. I told her that I don't know if the whole long distance thing will work because I'm a really busy person which is true. The other thing is I really hate phones/msn (don't ask me why, just don't like them :P). I don't really see the point in long distance things and since I told her how it would be if we tried to make something of it she has texted me a lot less and I don't know if she is bothered either. We said that we would see how things go and make a decision later, but I think it might be a waste of time. If she lived near me I'd really like to go out with her but all the fuss I think we should just leave it :( How do I tell her?


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  • #2
    Carpe_Diem
    Closed Accounts Posts: 17 ✭Carpe_Diem


    sunflower27 wrote: »
    Be honest with yourself. If you don't want to continue things, call her and tell her. She doesnt deserve to be strung along.

    I agree, I know it's hard to say you want to end it and you don't want to hurt her, but being honest and stopping it will hurt her a lot less in the long run than dragging your feet and suggesting it's not going to work. It'll be a lot less stress for you too, a few minutes of stress when you tell her, then it will be over with. Dragging it out creates a lot more drama and stress on you. Get it done so you can move on.


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