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  • 02-01-2011 12:21pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi Guys

    I'm 22 and met this girl a few weeks ago at a work party. She's 23, still at college and is a single mum. I really enjoyed the night and think she did too. She texted me the next morning to say what a great time she had and we've been texting on/off since.She even added me on facebook. She made it clear that she wouldn't be able to get out before christmas cause she needed to save some cash for Christmas day.

    We were supposed to meet up there last night but she wasn't sure if she could get a babysitter. She said she wouldn't know until early that day and she'd text me to let me know. She didn't bother texting me back at all. So i don't know really. I generally wouldn't even think of going with a girl with a kid because i'm only 22. Just finished college and have a nice job at the minute. But i do really like her and would like to see if anything could develop. So i suppose my question is should i just stop the chase and give up ?


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  • #2
    miec
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 856 ✭✭✭miec


    Hi Op

    As a single mum myself I know it can be difficult getting babysitters and even if you do then its a question of them turning up, however, I do believe that it is bad manners that she did not text you to let you know. I would say this to her and see how she responds to that, if she is defensive and rude then I wouldn't bother, there may though be a genuine reason.


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Thanks. I'll definitely ask her straight out i think.


  • #4
    killerking
    Closed Accounts Posts: 157 ✭✭killerking


    hgigoj wrote: »
    Hi Guys

    I'm 22 and met this girl a few weeks ago at a work party. She's 23, still at college and is a single mum. I really enjoyed the night and think she did too. She texted me the next morning to say what a great time she had and we've been texting on/off since.She even added me on facebook. She made it clear that she wouldn't be able to get out before christmas cause she needed to save some cash for Christmas day.

    We were supposed to meet up there last night but she wasn't sure if she could get a babysitter. She said she wouldn't know until early that day and she'd text me to let me know. She didn't bother texting me back at all. So i don't know really. I generally wouldn't even think of going with a girl with a kid because i'm only 22. Just finished college and have a nice job at the minute. But i do really like her and would like to see if anything could develop. So i suppose my question is should i just stop the chase and give up ?

    Call her instead of texting her and find out why she didn't text back.
    She probably had her hands full so arrange to meet some other time.
    She is a single mother so she is going to have to arrange for babysitters if you and her are going to go out.


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