Am I blocked?

LegacyUser

Long story short, I was out of order a night and contacted my ex. after I knew he was in a relationship. It was about mid night. I rang him once, he did not answer. I txted him a few messages (about 2 or 3 or 4). No reply. I was not surprised.

The next night, I accidentally txted him (seriously, just a mistake!). But then my message was pending for the whole night. I was wondering whether he blocked me so when I call him, it was directed to a voice message box.

I just want to know whether I am blocked? I dont want to contact him anymore. But I am also heartbroken for he blocking me just because of one night of messing from me. I havent done all these crazy mid-night txts even after we broke up. And he contacted me only a week before the night I was out of order.

Am I blocked? I just want to know.

Johnny Bitte

Phone could be off which is more likely.

Either way, if you don't want to contact him anymore whats the problem?

LegacyUser

just want to know...

box of Pandora maybe...

just want to know, really.

because i mistakenly sent him an empty message for the previous one, i thought it might be ought. so i sent another one with content (just apologise abt the previous night). both txts could not go through. and my call was directed to the voice box.

it's been 2 days and those two messages are still pending.

curlzy

We can't know if you're blocked. Either way it doesn't matter, you broke up and he's with someone else. Keep your dignity and self respect and leave him alone to get on with it, any further attempts to contact him will make you look a bit desparate and pathetic, so take the hint and don't try to contact him again. We've all made silly mistakes when drunk so don't feel bad but I would suggest you delete his number so you're not tempted to contact him again if you're drunk.

Best of luck.

cailinoBAC

It's not as easy to block somebody as you might think. Believe me, I had reason to look into it earlier this year. When you say 'a night' do you mean last night, or a few days/weeks ago? If it is a longer time, he more likely changed his number. Or he could have lost his phone.

Kiera

I know with o2 anyway, you can only block texts. Not calls. Sounds like his phone was off.