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  • 30-12-2010 2:37pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    firstly i feel strange that this may come across to some people as a problem, its not a problem as such i suppose. anyway.
    iv been seeing a girl for the last while and its all going well, the sex is great but she is way more experienced than me in so many ways, not a bad thing at all, granted iv been playing catch up with a lot of things, different positions that i havnt tried and things. lately we been 'sex texting' and its my first time doing that too.
    thing is there are some areas where i cant keep up, this sounds weird and sorry for the detail but whenever im behind her i come in a bout 60 seconds regardless of how long we been going, my other gf's were pretty conservative so i never really did it that way, its really embarassing, any tips would be welcome.
    another thing that has come up is that she wants to bring toys into it....where do i start, i havnt a clue what to do with anything like that.

    basically im afriad that my inexperience is going to lead her to getting bored or something, like is it a bad thing and can it be a turn off?


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  • #2
    curlzy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,708 ✭✭✭curlzy


    Hey OP,

    My boyfriend and I were recently discussing how girls need to concentrate to cum whereas guys need to concentrate to not cum. I asked how he goes for so long and he said he thinks about things like all the things he still has to buy for christmas or thinking about comics he'd like to buy. That helps when the pressure is mounting. Or slowing it down every so often helps to last longer. Sorry that's all the tips I can give you (no pun intended :D) as I'm a girl.


  • #3
    killerking
    Closed Accounts Posts: 157 ✭✭killerking


    Hi OP,

    First of all regarding. premature ejaculation the best thing to do is to masturbate a whole lot more and just as you feel you are on the verge of cumming, stop and allow your penis to return to it's normal size and then start masturbating again and once again stop just before you are about to cum.
    Do this every time you masturbate and you will pleasantly discover that you will start lasting longer and longer.

    If you want to know more about positions and sex toys there are any number of sex manuals in bookshops or online. There are as many positions you can use during sex as there are days in the year.

    The most important thing is telling her how inexperienced you are and asking her what she wants in bed - she will want to teach you and give you practical demonstrations. So go for it.

    Have fun.:D


  • #4
    keane2097
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,789 ✭✭✭✭keane2097


    In terms of sex and experimenting with toys with your GF and all that my best advice is to throw yourself into it.

    Trust your GF to understand when you're not 100% sure what you're at, but give everything ago. It's an adventure, get stuck into it (pardon the pun obv) and enjoy it. Your GF already knows you're less experienced, you making mistakes isn't going to turn her off you.


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