do you this guy sees me as a friend?

LegacyUser

Hi everyone, just looking for advice please!

So me (girl) have always fancied this guy. We're not that close but we text each other. We both lives ages away from each other. Anyhow he texted me to ask him to his birthday but i don't know whether its a big general text to all his phonebook! or whether he just wants to make numbers!

You see when i text him sometimes he ignores my message or other times when he texts me one sentence texts, once i did ask if he wanted to meet up with times he suggested a meet up first but he couldn't get off work!

So do you think he fancies me or is it just a friend? If i can't make it to this party do you think i should ask him out for lunch or something?

Thanks

cafecolour

Sounds like he sees you as a friend to me, if he doesn't respond quickly to texts and such, though proximity could also play a part. There's no harm in asking him to lunch if you miss his birthday and see the reaction.

kathy2

If a guy is interested in you he will find you.

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