I'm in a tricky situation

investment

I'm in a tricky situation

I met a girl through work, I did not like her at first. I put her in the friends zone , but she has grown on me over the last year. When we first met she came up to me for help with work and I obliged and we have become great friends. I was really mean to her at first and never showed any interest in her. I would score other girls and this seemed to interest her as she always spoke about what girls I was with when we would speak to each other. (why??)


Anyways I like her now, but she doesn't want a relationship atm, which is grand. But she doesnt want to be with anyone from work,
which is grand too. I'm willing to wait as I think she is the one.But I'm too young for that atm.

The real problem is that I want to score some of her friends who have asked me out a few times. and over to there houses. Some fun but nothing serious

If I score her close friends will I run my chances with her I think she might be the one. But I will be used goods

what should I do?

mrpink6789

If you score her close friends you can pretty much guarantee her not being with you down the road. However if they are her close friends they most likely have asked her if they can ask you out to which she said no problem. This would make me think she is not that interested in you to be honest. But thats just my opinion, i'm sure theres loads of different scenarios.

Kiera

Most girls wont want to be with a guy that has been with their mates. So if you're really into this girl i'd stay away from her friends.

Chinafoot

How old are you?

You were mean to her for no reason, she's "grown on" you, and now you think "she's the one", yet you claim to want to score her mates??

Have you any idea how ridiculously contradictory all of that is? You sound about 13 years old.

If you genuinely want to be with this girl in a proper relationship, which from what you've posted here seems very unlikely, stay the hell away from her friends. You sound like you have a lot of growing up to do.

curlzy

Agreed. Getting with a bloke a mate has been with is just awkward. Also, if you're planning on scoring more than one of them you'll come across as a man-slut and girls aren't impressed by that the way lads are. So if you really really like her then stay away from her mates or you'll be firmly in the friendzone forevermore.

liah

You sound like you feel you're entitled to her tbh. I wouldn't waste her time, nevermind the entitlement attitude but how you treated her probably didn't do much to help win her over.

investment

liah wrote: »

You sound like you feel you're entitled to her tbh. I wouldn't waste her time, nevermind the entitlement attitude but how you treated her probably didn't do much to help win her over.

Well she came on to me when I did not like her, I felt sorry for her and now I love her.
She is about a 6/10 , but she would make a good wife and she has a nice personality.

liah

investment wrote: »

Well she came on to me when I did not like her, I felt sorry for her and now I love her.
She is about a 6/10 , but she would make a good wife and she has a nice personality.

And so because she liked you before you treated her like crap and you now feel 'sorry' for her, you think that she'd still even be remotely interested in you?

And why are you talking about her as if you'd be 'settling' for her, you're talking like you're appraising a house.

<snip>

IrishEyes19

investment wrote: »

Well she came on to me when I did not like her, I felt sorry for her and now I love her.
She is about a 6/10 , but she would make a good wife and she has a nice personality.

You dont deserve her if you actually rate her like that?? Anyone who is in love doesnt come onto a public forum and actually rate someone like that. thats just weird.

Ickle Magoo

Plenty of suitable advice already offered.

OP, might I suggest you take the time to read the forum rules in the charter before posting again.

Many thanks.
Ickle