Messed Up

LegacyUser

Hi Guys,

Goin unreg or this. Met this girl on a dating website and we have been talking for 2 months now and get on really well and talk all the time.We were supposed to meet a few times but fell through due to my car breaking down and bad weather and said we would once weather gets better. Anyways we were txting the other day and i asked if she wanted to meet up soon and i got no response and then i sent a message a few hours later asking if she got it and still nothing back.

A few more hours later i logged onto facebook and she started chatting to me asking how i was etc and i put up a post saying i was pissed off but not what about. She then asked what i was pissed off about but i said nothing but i was angry i said what i thought and said it was rude not to reply back and if she was not interested why doesnt she jst not come out and say it and i really dont like people being rude.

She then said that her brother took her phone by accident and she didnt get any message from me and she is now really really mad at me or jumping to conclusions about it and for calling her rude and putting up a post about her.

A few days have passed and she is still really angry at me about me even though i have said sorry and i asked her at the time if i can bring her out to a nice dinner to show im sorry to which she replied she doesnt go out with people who jump to conclusions and people who think she is rude. I have said sorry and rang her last night to say the same and she is still livid with me with 2 days passing since the incident.
I asked her out to dinner again to which she replied we will see.

My question is what should i do? do i give her space to calm down or would she then think i dont care? i text her today saying i removed that post from facebook but she didnt reply.

Have i completly messed things up????

curlzy

Hey OP,

She sound very high maintenance and you sound about ten. Putting a message on Facebook about being pissed at her??? My 18 year old sister would be more mature than that. Her being oh so pissed off that you were pissed off and being pissed off that you jumped to conclusions is a bit immature too, in fairness it was an easy conclusion to jump to. I see any relationship you guys have as loaded with drama and silly arguments. Maybe stay away from women until you've matured a bit?

Best of luck.

Kiera

Let her cool off for a bit. If she likes you enough she'lll calm down and give you a ring/text. If you dont hear from her then just forget about it. You dont need drama like that from someone you havent even met yet.

/btw, you shouldnt have posted that on FB. You should have been honest with her and spoke to her about it.

astra2000

Would def agree with curlzy, what ages are ye op? Tbh from your post I would put ye both under 18, if ye are older I would advise you to learn from this and move on.