Has she lost interest in me?

LegacyUser

I have being seeing an incredible girl last few months (never really plucked up courage to ask her out stupidly as we would see each other only once or twice a week). Anyway to cut a long story short the last week or two she seems to be more distant and hasn't replied to texts I sent her today or last night. Very worried as she normally reples, i want to meet up with her to give her an expensive Christmas present that I got her and tell her how mad i am about her. What can I do if she doesn't reply to my texts? I wont enjoy Christmas if she ends it

whatsamsn

I might be abit stupid op... but you say you are seeing her the last few months but have never asked her out? ... So are you dating her? or just friends or something?

wirelessdude01

So you were "friends with benefits" for a few months and now your afraid that she has found someone else before you told her how you actually feel?

Perhaps she has some family emergency that needs her attention.

LegacyUser

Sort of "friends of benefits" although we only slept together once, not really dating but more than friends. I know she really liked me too before but am worried now that me waiting so long to commit to her has driven her away. I'm pretty sure she hasn't fond someone else but i feel like some dope if i've blown it.

She might be working tomorrow, would it be too creepy to wait outside when she's finished to see what the story is?

wirelessdude01

That might be a little creepy. Was the normal method of communication text or did you ever call? You've texted her already so probably best not to go to psycho on it

LegacyUser

Ya mostly via text, the reason i asked that was I would often give her a lift after work or walk her home and it was good quality time. another point i didn't mention is that she is best friends with girlfriend of good friend of mine so the humiliation of being shot down will be compounded. I can't stop thinking about her, i feel like some dope if my worst fears materialise and i let her slip through my fingers.

I suppose there is not much people here can do for me but its just being eaten me up and it is a bit of a relief to get things off my chest.

Katgurl

Phone her!!! Give her a ring early tomorrow and wish her happy Christmas. Ask her to meet you for an hour after work. Then tell her you are into her and wanna give things a shot.

LegacyUser

Katgurl wrote: »

Phone her!!! Give her a ring early tomorrow and wish her happy Christmas. Ask her to meet you for an hour after work. Then tell her you are into her and wanna give things a shot.

Thing is she works with just her boss so can't answer her phone, would this text make sense:

"Hey Steph, happy Christmas. I have something important for you, can you give me shout after work if you are interested. X"


Thanks so much for replies everyone, happy Christmas

dearg lady

Worriediblewit wrote: »

Thing is she works with just her boss so can't answer her phone, would this text make sense:

"Hey Steph, happy Christmas. I have something important for you, can you give me shout after work if you are interested. X"


Thanks so much for replies everyone, happy Christmas

That msg sounds a little odd, I would be a bit weirded out getting that msg. Is there no good time you can phone her? Or even just text, can you give me a shout when you get a chance?

LegacyUser

Still no contact I assume she has indeed lost interest. Real pity, perhaps I'll meet her over Christmas and try rekindle her interest. Thanks for replies, mods can perhaps close this now.

Ickle Magoo

Closed at OP's request.