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Acting weird around someone you like!

  • 21-12-2010 1:59pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi Guys,

    This may seem like quite a weird problem but it’s really bothering me and I could do with some advice!

    I would consider myself to be an intelligent, warm and funny person who can always make people laugh but when I’m around/with someone I fancy, I become very sullen and quiet.
    I recently went on a few dates with a guy who I really fancy. He was very complimentary towards me which helped me relax a little but I still struggled to be myself throughout the night. I was being very quiet and awkward so much so that he said to me several times....lighten up will you?
    This bothered me so much the next day cause I’m not like that at all. He said to me that I seemed
    ‘worried’ the whole time. Hardly a s*xy look!

    My friends would honestly describe me as extremely funny, my sense of humour is probably my best trait but around this guy I act like a corpse!

    Can anybody relate to this or even explain this to me? I’ve been out with this guy 3 times now and each time I meet him I feel intimidated by his good looks or something! I’m not being big headed but I’m a very good looking girl too and he told me he thinks I’m hot so why can’t I relax?

    He hasn’t called/texted me since Saturday now and I get the feeling he won’t either cause he’s lost interest now.

    It’s very frustrating!!

    Any advice?


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  • #2
    mrpink6789
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 830 ✭✭✭mrpink6789


    You need to be more confident with this guy, you have the perfect opportunity to do this now by not waiting for him to text you. Text him yourself and say you really enjoyed last weekend and if he was free would he like to do it again?
    He wont expect that if he thinks you are shy etc.


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