mixed signals help?

marglin

right i was on here a few weeks ago about this girl i had feelings for, anyway to cut a long story short we scored saturday night, all day yesterday i couldnt have been happier.

then last night i stayed over at hers again but she refused flat out to score me again, this is after me getting her a really nice gift and all(not a pyscho btw, we were doing secret santa, had been organised well before saturday)

i thought once i got confirmation she liked me back, things would be easy but this is much worse than before. i just dunno what she's at, we havent really talked about any of this either so i dunno what she's thinking.

maybe im over reacting but why would someone be all about you one night and completely dismiss you the following night?

any advice would be well appreciated my head is absolutely wrecked right now

neveah

This is going to sound bad and I don't mean it to be but, was this girl drunk on Saturday night? Could explain why she had the change of heart yesterday. Why did you end up staying over at hers if she wouldn't score with you? Are you coming on too strong? Maybe you should back well off and see if she comes to you. It's all such a game sometimes, she knows you are interested so she's not fussed, the minute you back off she could come running.

Sorry I don't have much more advice but with the affairs of the heart it's impossible to tell what's going on in some people's heads!:rolleyes:

WhodahWoodah

Why not just ask her straight out whether you've offended her in some way? Or if you don't want to do that then just ask her out. You might not get an answer you want to hear from either of those questions but at least you'll find out where you stand and if she's not interested you can turn your attentions elsewhere!

dub_3

maybe it's the wrong time of the month and she doesn't want to say as you've only just gotten together, or maybe she just needs a bit of time to decide if Saturday night was a mistake or not.

Miss Fluff

Did she invite you to stay over last night?

marglin

gonna try and answer these questions in order:

initially ya she was drunk sat nite but she sobered up way before we scored, she came on to me anyway, dont think it was a drunken score

time of the month has nothing to do with anything, didnt try and sleep with her, i just mean we kissed when i say scored

ya nd no she didnt explicitly say stay over but she didnt tell me to leave either. i was over there for a different reason, having dinner with a gang of ppl

i think she's just confused and ya i know its a game but i thought if we knew each other as long as we do all that sh.it wudnt come into it

she says she just wants to be friends so im gonna leave it at that for now and see how she feels in a few weeks or so

im thinking playing cold wud be a good idea rite? i mean if she's playing games i shud too, its just so fu.ckin immature imo

i fancied her for ages and i always had in my head once we scored, knew we liked each other everyting else wud be easy i s'pose im just annoyed at myself for not considering all the permutations