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not together but still in love

LegacyUser · 2010-12-20 02:14:46

Myself and someone Id been friends with for several years began seeing each other over a year ago. The timing was terrible, outside factors were affecting us both and the budding relationship took the brunt of it unfortunatly. We both felt very strongly about each other and despite all the turmoil we kept trying to make a…

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Myself and someone Id been friends with for several years began seeing each other over a year ago. The timing was terrible, outside factors were affecting us both and the budding relationship took the brunt of it unfortunatly. We both felt very strongly about each other and despite all the turmoil we kept trying to make a go of it. We both made some poor decisions and hurt each other in the process and eventually decided to sepparate. That was a few months ago.

Ive been doing alot of thinking since we sepparated and my thoughts on it have gone back and forth between thinking I need to put it in the past and wanting to give it another go.
We are on fairly good terms and Im pretty sure Im not the only one who still harbours feelings but I for one am quite wary of getting back in a position to be hurt again. At the moment I feel like time is the best healer and whatever way it goes, rushing it would be a bad idea. I also know that it wouldnt be fair or sensible to propose giving it another shot...but not yet. I also dont want to assume I know how he feels about me, or to presume he would want to give it another shot at some stage.

So basically Im wondering if anyone has any suggestions about how to proceed? Just stay in touch and see how things go? Or speak out even though I dont feel like Im ready to get into it again? Thanks for reading.

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