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seeing someone question

  • 19-12-2010 5:04pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    i been seeing a girl for a few weeks now, nothing has been said about where it is going etc and iv only met up with her a few times but we talk most days. im not entirely sure where i stand kinda, how long does the 'seeing' someone last, are we exclusive? is it ok to be with other people, do i just see how it goes or should i bring it up with her


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  • #2
    John400
    Closed Accounts Posts: 179 ✭✭John400


    Mate if you've 'been seeing a girl for a few weeks now' and talk most days with her...you're going out with her.

    I don't see how this translates into making it 'okay to be with other people'?


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Eh, you're living in Ireland, not America. You shouldn't need to have that conversation, us Irish are fairly clear-cut, we're all about "exclusivity"! If you want to see other people, cut contact. Simple as.


  • #4
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    OP here, sorry I may not have been clear in my first post. I havnt been with someone else but it's Christmas, party season and all that and I'm not going to see her until the new year. I don't want to be with other people but to be honest I was more thinking what if she is with someone else over Christmas, should I be ok with that. The reason it's on my mind is that when this started we said we'd just see how I goes as she was out of a relationship not long before that and that's the reason I havnt asked her about 'us' because indot want to rush her into anything. Maybe I'm making no sense


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