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ex-boyfriend back on scene

LegacyUser · 2010-12-19 10:45:36

It's probably a common problem, but i'd like to ask for some advice anyway. I've been seeing a girl for the last few months that I met in work, and all was going well. We're both mid twenties. She was in contact with her ex-boyfriend during this time, but said they were just friends and just chatted sometimes. But the…

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It's probably a common problem, but i'd like to ask for some advice anyway. I've been seeing a girl for the last few months that I met in work, and all was going well. We're both mid twenties.

She was in contact with her ex-boyfriend during this time, but said they were just friends and just chatted sometimes. But the other night she told me that he had met up with her one evening and he hinted that maybe he'd like to get back together (it was a 5 year relationship, and he broke up with her about 9 months ago). So she told me she doesn't want to meet me anymore because this made her realise she still has loads of feelings for him, and maybe she would like to get back with him :-(

Is there anything I can do in this situation? I would say that our relationship wasn't too serious (no mention of love or anything like that), but I like the girl an awful lot, and would have liked something more to happen between us. She had told me that she didn't have any feelings for this guy, so I don't know if this was a lie, or she changed her mind. But I don't think there's anything I can do or say that would cause her to change her mind again?? The other thing is that I'm usually not one for staying friends (it's easier in the long run not to), but I think I'll have to because of working together...

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