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  • 15-12-2010 7:23pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I met a wonderful girl that I've fallen for and we have an absolutely great time together. Everything is great and I know that she has fallen for me too. We are still very much in the early stages of our relationship but I know there is one problem which is ahead of us. She's not from Ireland and she plans to move back to her own Country long term in about 6 months. This is were the problem lies for me. I don't believe in long term relationships and what will happen at this stage we haven't discussed yet. Anyway I guess I'm wondering if I should enjoy it for the time being? I'm just scared of what will happen down the road and feel I may be delaying the inevitable.


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  • #2
    TwoShedsJackson
    Closed Accounts Posts: 9,438 ✭✭✭TwoShedsJackson


    This is were the problem lies for me. I don't believe in long term relationships and what will happen at this stage we haven't discussed yet.

    Did you mean long distance relationships there?

    Enjoy yourself now while she's here and wait and see what happens when she has to go back. You never know what may happen in the future and if she does go back and that ends it, then so be it.

    But as my mother would say here 'he who forsees disaster suffers it twice over' so don't worry about what she says she plans to do in 6 months - plans can change.


  • #3
    Beruthiel
    Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 42,362 Mod ✭✭✭✭Beruthiel


    What Mr. TwoSheds above said.

    Enjoy yourself for now and worry about that in 6 months time.

    Live in the moment.


  • #4
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    OP here again. Yes, my apologies I did mean long distance relationships. I appreciate the advice and I agree. I will do just that and live for the moment. Really appreciate the advice. Thank you both kindly.


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