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Pregnant Dumped and Depressed

  • 14-12-2010 9:12pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
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    I am in the depths of depression.....I am pregnant and my partner of ten years had told me he no longer wishes to be with me and has no feelings for me and he is done.

    I am only three months gone and I have no choice now to move home, I am prone to depression but I am in a very dark place now and I can't take anything and I just feel hopeless.

    I dont know where to start - I cant imagine life without him but here I am carrying his child and he wants me out - I cant get my head around this


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  • #2
    ABajaninCork
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    So sorry to hear of this, and I hope you've had the chance to sleep on it...

    I know this sounds silly, but does your partner know you're pregnant first of all? What does he have to say about it? Is he making provision for the child??

    I really think that your first duty is to yourself and your baby. Your health is important. See the doctor. He may be able to prescribe something to help you over the hump, but won't harm the baby. If the Mummy isn't looking after herself, then the baby will suffer. Leave your partner alone for the moment while you sort yourself out. This will give him the time and space needed to think things through and decide what he wants

    If he's chucking you out of the house, then you need to see about getting alternative accommodation ASAP.

    See someone about getting maintenance for your child. I think I read elsewhere that maintenance has to be applied for BEFORE the baby is born, but perhaps you need to check.

    Stay strong and good luck! Hope I've helped...:)


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