My partner ex and his child

LegacyUser

Hi All,

Haven't been on here in a long time... myself and my boyfriend have been together for 4 years. we love each other very much.. He has a child with what can only be described as an absolute fruit cake! She is a horrible horrible person. She hates me to my core and I've always kept my distance and never got involved. she has always tried to get my partner away from me but last xmas she stopped him seeing his child and because she is very arguementative and an anti Christ he didnt want to cause his little girl more argro from her mother over him... Although he did see a solicitor and letters were sent... nothing was done..... So its Xmas again and.. he is ssooo utterly depressed and wants to send presents over to her but doesnt know wheather this will make things worse or things will kick off again.

I honestly dont know what to advise.... I'm thinking of the nature/nurture.... I need some advise

mylittlepony

If he could, can he try to ask the mother directly to see his daughter and give her xams pressie and then next year start legal process to get formal access to his daughter so that she cannot have have 100% control over ihs access to his daughter. Best of luck.

astra2000

Theres a tread for separated dads re access and guardianship in the parenting forum some of the posters there may be better able to advise you.