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Girls getting under my skin.....

  • 05-12-2010 9:58pm
    #1
    bigmouth strikes again
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2 ✭


    Hey guys, just looking for a but of advice on a reoccuring problem I seem to have regarding the fairer sex and relationships. Apologies if this issue has been done to death. I'm having trouble shaking off niggling feeling I have towards some of my exes, two in particular....

    One of these was a LTR, which is over four years now and although I regard myself as well over the heartbreak stage, any time I see or hear so much as a mention I get agitated and feel really down about myself (usually quite confident\cocky person). No one has the power to make me feel bad about myself quite like she has and she is completely unaware of this. She doesn't try to hurt me or anything, its completely self-destructive.

    Another flame was only a relatively small fling and we had a fairly amicable split 6 months ago, basically i liked the girl but we were completely incompatible. Despite this, seeing her around, with friends and indeed other guys, or even facebook activity gets me nervous and puts me in a pisser. I'm not even sure if I would even be interested in seeing her again so I'm not sure why this girl in particular is lingering in my conscience.

    Basically I can't seem to find away to put this baggage well and truly to bed. Its eating me up silently and affecting my already temperamental state of mind. Girl 1 is returning from a year working abroad and will inevitably bump into her through mutual friends so I'm trying to prepare myself mentally in advance...... :/

    PS new to boards, some great stuff happening on here, keep it up :) Sorry my first post is a long and whingy one but i'd be grateful for any help at all


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