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Asking Somebody Out!

  • 05-12-2010 7:33pm
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi guys,

    There is this girl that i always found really attractive and really want to ask her out.Im

    friends with her on facebook cause we were in the same class in school and had the same

    friends but have never really talked to her apart from the odd thing or two back in school.

    Any idea how i would go about this???? Were finished school four years by the way


Comments

  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    My advice would be, though it may be stupid advice :)
    Is to find an excuse on Facebook to chat to her a bit...
    Leave a comment on one of her status messages that might open a conversation between you or something like that, and break that barrior first.
    Then once youre talking on there maybe ask where she goes out or what she likes to do with her time.
    Once you have this step you could try from there, asking her if she'd like to do something fun with you or if she'd like to go out there sometime with you?

    Basically this way you'll get a feel for how she sees you, does she write back much, will she engage in a conversation with you. Also its not just straight up asking her out with no previous contact which might scare her away a little.

    Take small steps, over a few weeks, and try to make things amicable between you, then you'll know when best to broach the topic of going on a date, or not.

    Hope this helps...


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 911 ✭✭✭whatsamsn


    You're in a good position. Its only 4 years ago so she remembers you and if she does say no its not like you have to see her in your job, between friends etc etc.

    So mate just flirt with her over facebook. Just mail her and then get into if she is single, then flirt from there. Build up. Dont just shoot your bolt and go "wanna go out sometime?!!??!" ;)


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